Unit5EQPlaysaRoleinPersonalSuccess(2).pptx

EQ Plays a Role in Personal SuccessMembers：Deng Jing，Zhang Xiaolu , Zhang Yaping , Kong Xiangwei What is EQ ?Mixed modelThe model introduced by Daniel Goleman focuses on EI as a wide array of competencies and skills that drive leadership performance. Emotional Quotient （Emotional intelligence EI) is the ability to monitor ones own and other peoples emotions, to discriminate between different emotions and label them appropriately, and touse emotional information to guide thinking and behavior.Golemans model outlines five main EI constructs ：1.Self-awareness the ability to know ones emotions, strengths, weaknesses, drives, values and goals and recognize their impact on others while using gut feelings to guide decisions.2.Self-regulation involves controlling or redirecting ones disruptive emotions and impulses and adapting to changing circumstances. 3.Social skill managing relationships to move people in the desired direction 4.Empathy - considering other peoples feelings especially when making decision 5.Motivation - being driven to achieve for the sake of achievement.EQ Plays a Role in Personal Success Para. 1 It turns out that a scientist can see the future by watchingfour-year-olds interact with a piece of candy. The researcher invites the children, one by one, into a plain room and begins the gentle torture. “You can have this piece of candy right now,” he says. “But if you wait while I leave the room for a while, you can have two pieces of candy when I get back.” And then he leaves. Para. 2 Some children grab for the treat the minute hes out the door. Some last a few minutes before they give in. But others are determined to wait. They cover their eyes; they put their heads down; they sing to themselves; they try to play games or even fall asleep. When the researcher returns, he gives these children their hard-earned pieces of candy. And then, science waits for them to grow up. Para. 3 By the time the children reach high school, something remarkable has happened. A survey of the childrens parents and teachers found that those who as four-year-olds hadenough self-control to hold out for the second piece of candy generally grew up to be better adjusted, more popular, adventurous, confident and dependable teenagers. Thechildren who gave in to temptation early on were more likely to be lonely, easily frustrated and inflexible. They could not endure stress and shied away from challenges. 1.According to Daniel Golemans model, which part of the four-year-old childrens emotional intelligence has been tested?Key: Self-regulation The keys who did not give in to the temptation of the first pice of candy,have a good self-regulation ability when faced with the gentle torture. Question 12.What is the finding of the experiment concerning watching four-year-olds interact with a piece of candy?Key: Those four-year-olds who had enough self-control to hold out for the second piece of candy generally grew up to be better adjusted, more popular, adventurous, confident and dependable teenagers. Skim the first three paragraphs to find:Question 2 It turns out that = It is proved thatSth. turns out to be / sb. turns out to do sth. = sth. / sb. is discovered to be / do sth. 人们发现1. It turns out that a scientist can see the future by watching four-year-olds interact with a piece of candy. 原来原来他们还是孩子时她就认识他了。他们还是孩子时她就认识他了。It turned out that she had known him when they were children. It turns out that (clause): Example 1人们发现，人生总是交替于成功与失败之间。人们发现，人生总是交替于成功与失败之间。（交替于（交替于A A和和B B之间之间 alternate between A and B） It turns out that life always alternates between success and failure. It turns out that (clause) Example 2The minute that = as soon as2. Some children grab for the treat the minute hes out the door. 我我一见到一见到他就知道出事了。他就知道出事了。 I recognized him the minute I saw him. The minute (that) I saw him I knew something was wrong.Example 1Example 2我一眼就认出了他我一眼就认出了他These two chemicals interact with eachother at a certain temperature to produce a substance which could cause an explosion.这两种化学品在一定的温度下互相作用，会产这两种化学品在一定的温度下互相作用，会产生一种能引起爆炸的物质。生一种能引起爆炸的物质。3. interact with to communicate with or react with (each other)Example 1note quickly put out your hand to catch sth. 想抓住某物想抓住某物 溺水之人想抓住最后一根稻草但最终还是没溺水之人想抓住最后一根稻草但最终还是没抓住。抓住。 The drowning man grabbed for the last straw but in vain in the end. 4. grab for:Example 1It often turns out that what one grabs for most is not truly important in life. 人们常常发现，一个人最想抓住的并非人生真人们常常发现，一个人最想抓住的并非人生真正重要的。正重要的。 grab for:Example 2note agree to do sth. that you had at first opposed 让步让步 give away 泄露泄露give out 分发；耗尽；发表分发；耗尽；发表give up 放弃；自首；不再指望放弃；自首；不再指望5. give in:concludeHis wife went on at him so much that eventually he gave in. 妻子不停地责怪他，他最终只好让步。妻子不停地责怪他，他最终只好让步。 He tried to smile a natural smile, but his voice gave him away.他努力笑得自然些，可他的声音出卖了他。他努力笑得自然些，可他的声音出卖了他。 give in:Example 1Example 2note not accept anything less than you have asked for 坚持要坚持要 对于那些坚持终生追求不动摇的人，困难只对于那些坚持终生追求不动摇的人，困难只能是增添其信心的砝码。能是增添其信心的砝码。 For those who hold out for their lifelong pursuit, difficulties are nothing but weights in favor of their confidence. hold out for :Example 1The least acceptable thing about life is that all one holds out for turns out to be naught. 人生最不能接受的，莫过于自己所坚持的一切人生最不能接受的，莫过于自己所坚持的一切最终化为乌有。最终化为乌有。 hold out for:Example 2note avoid something or avoid doing something because of dislike, fear, or lack of confidence 6.shy away from:Example 1我从不在困难的工作前退缩我从不在困难的工作前退缩Ive never shied away from hard work.The girl shied away from looking the boy in the eye.女孩很害羞，不敢正视男孩。女孩很害羞，不敢正视男孩。 shy away from:Example 2 When we think of brilliance we see Einstein, a thinking machine with skin and mismatched socks. but why, over time, natural talent seems to waken in some people and dim in otherssecond part Skimming SkimmingNow skim the paragraph 4 and 5 as quickly as you can and answer these questions:1.What is the master skill attached to high achievers?2.What questions could not brain theory explain?3.Do you think how can we develop Emotional Intelligence? Words and phrases Words and phrasesbe wired for sth： have all the conditions for sth. to workeg. High achievers, we imagine, were wired for greatness from birth. 在我们想像中，取得卓越成就的人一出生就注定会不在我们想像中，取得卓越成就的人一出生就注定会不平凡。平凡。 你具备了成就大业的素质，但关键找到用武之地。你具备了成就大业的素质，但关键找到用武之地。You are wired for a great undertaking, but the key point is to find a place where you can give full play to your talents.a triumph of A over B： a victory of A over B(A战胜战胜B）eg.It seems that the ability to delay reward is a master skill, a triumph of the logical brain over the irresponsible one. 看来似乎能耐心等待收益的能力是最重要的技巧。这看来似乎能耐心等待收益的能力是最重要的技巧。这里，逻辑性强的思考战胜了不负责任的思考里，逻辑性强的思考战胜了不负责任的思考 在这场篮球比赛中，红队最终战胜了蓝队在这场篮球比赛中，红队最终战胜了蓝队 T There was a final triumph of the red team the red team over the blue team. the blue team. show up: appear; arrive, often after a delay 我请他八点钟来，可他到九点半才到我请他八点钟来，可他到九点半才到I invited him for eight oclock, but he didnt show up until nine-thirty.Example 1Example 2我们预计会有我们预计会有3030人来，但有一半人根本没有露面。人来，但有一半人根本没有露面。We were expecting thirty people to come, but half of them never showed up.worship ：to have a strong feeling of respect and admiration for people or objects, often without being aware of their faultseg. For most of this century, scientists have worshipped the hardware of the brain and the software of the mind. 在本世纪大部分时间，科学家们一直重视大脑这个在本世纪大部分时间，科学家们一直重视大脑这个具体之物和理智这个无形之物具体之物和理智这个无形之物.他不喜欢那些崇拜权利和金钱的人他不喜欢那些崇拜权利和金钱的人He dislikes those who worship power and money.upbeat : full of hope, happiness and good feelings 我们的目标是在广告宣传活动中传递乐观的我们的目标是在广告宣传活动中传递乐观的信息信息Were aiming to deliver an upbeat message in our advertising campaignend up: finish by becoming (sth.)or doing (sth.) 走遍世界各地之后，她最终当了一名教英语的外走遍世界各地之后，她最终当了一名教英语的外语老师语老师 After working her way around the world, she ended up teaching English as a foreign language on sight: as soon as you see someone or something他好像一见到她就已不喜欢她，然而他对她一无所知他好像一见到她就已不喜欢她，然而他对她一无所知He seemed to have hated her on sight, yet he knew nothing about hera gift for / of (doing) sth.:她具备难得的自嘲天赋她具备难得的自嘲天赋She has a rare gift for laughing at herself. vYou have 3 minutes to read paragraph 6&7 and then answer follow questions:Perceptions are RelativeWhen it comes to predicting peoples success, brain capacity as measured by IQ may actually matter less than the qualities of mind once thought of as “character”.Accrodding to paragraph 7 ,What does the author think about Emotional Intelligence ?What is the theory proposed by Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman?What is Daniel Golemans goal of publishing Emotional Intelligence?His goal is to redefine what it means to be smart. the book would not be quite so interesting or its implications so controversial. The phrase “emotional intelligence” was created toto describe qualities such as understanding and regulating ones emotion According to Daniel Goleman, when we predict a persons success,brain capacity may be less important than the qualities of mind coinv. invent a new word or expressionPara.6 Line 1这个词是在这个词是在2020世纪世纪4040年代年代二战二战期间被创造出来期间被创造出来的。的。The word was coined in the 1940s during the Second World War. The phrase emotional intelligence was The phrase emotional intelligence was coined by researchers five years ago to coined by researchers five years ago to describe qualities like understanding ones describe qualities like understanding ones own feelingsown feelings 情感智能一词是研究人员五年前创造出来的，用以描绘人的一些素质，诸如对自身感觉的了解。 is about tohave the intention of doing sth. immediatelyPara.6 Line 3他眼看要睡熟了，这时电话铃响了。他眼看要睡熟了，这时电话铃响了。He was about to fall asleep when the telephone rang.由于丹尼尔戈尔曼的新书情感智能，这一概念很快会成为国内谈论的话题，为方便起见简称为情商。 This notion is about to bound into the This notion is about to bound into the national conversation, conveniently national conversation, conveniently shortened to EQ, thanks to a new book, shortened to EQ, thanks to a new book, Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman. Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman. thanks tobecause of Para.6 Line 4多亏了这种治疗，他的病情好多了。多亏了这种治疗，他的病情好多了。Thanks to this treatment, his condition has improved. at first glancewhen first looking at something Para.7 Line 1乍一看，我还以为她是个不错的人，可是我错了。乍一看，我还以为她是个不错的人，可是我错了。 At first glance I thought of her as a nice person but I was mistaken. At first glance, there would seem to be At first glance, there would seem to be little thats new here. little thats new here. 乍一看来，此说并无新意。 have/get authority over have the ability or power to controlPara. 7 Line 2 军官有权指挥其下属的士兵。军官有权指挥其下属的士兵。An officer has authority over the soldiers under him.ThTherere may be no less original idea than the e may be no less original idea than the notion that our hearts have authority over notion that our hearts have authority over our heads.our heads. 它与感情掌管头脑的说法一样并无创见。 amounts to have the same effect asPara.7 Line 3对其说法不同，而实际上是一回事。对其说法不同，而实际上是一回事。 It is stated differently but amounts to the same thing. Neither is it surprising that people Neither is it surprising that people skills are useful, which amounts to skills are useful, which amounts to saying its good to be nice. saying its good to be nice. 与人交往的技巧非常有用，此说也不令人吃惊，这就等于说与人为善是对的。Self-awareness the ability to know ones emotions, strengths, weaknesses, drives, values and goals and recognize their impact on others while using gut feelings to guide decisions.Self-regulation involves controlling or redirecting ones disruptive emotions and impulses and adapting to changing circumstances.Social skill managing relationships to move people in the desired directionEmpathy - considering other peoples feelings especially when making decisionMotivation - being driven to achieve for the sake of achievement.l Paragraph 8 l Question :In this paragraph,autor refers to many examples to illustrate two little standpoints,you have two minutes finding them.l answer:EQ investigation is not abstract ,it has practical applications our life have a demand for basic emotional education. l This section tells us that emotional education is important in our life ,we shoud take it seriously.l Last Paragraph l Question :what do researchers worry about when people talk about EQ?l answer:people may give a one-sided comment on others EQ Incorrect notion :High EQ equals to low IQ1.content analysis2.phrase l how couples can increase the odds that their marriages will last l 夫妇该如何提高婚姻延续的可能性l the odds that.(clause). the chances that 可能性l example l High EQ can add greatly to the odds that you advance in career. l 高情商可以极大地促进你成功的可能性。l When street gangs substitute for families and schoolyard insults end in knife attacksl 当街头团伙取代了家庭环境，当校园辱骂导致了打架斗殴。l substitute for. take the place of; use something to replace something else 替代 l example l He was substituted for another athlete because of his injury. l 他因受伤被另一名运动员替换下场。l some people are blessed with a lot of both, but some with little of either.l 一些人有幸两者都很高，一些人则两者都很低。l be blessed with.have something very good or special 被赋予l example l Blessed with outstanding talent and boundless energy, he can be seen as the best candidate for the position. l 他才智非凡, 精力无限, 可视为此职位的最佳人选。l how ones ability to handle stress, for instance, affects the ability to concentrate and put intelligence to use.l 举例说，一个人应付压力的能力是如何影响他集中精力，运用智力的能力的。l put sth. to use.make use of sth. 加以利用l example l It is a pity to throw anything away if it can be put to use. l 扔掉任何可以利用的东西令人遗憾。l researchers now generally agree that IQ counts for about 20%l 研究人员现在普遍认为智商约起20%的作用l counts for. proportion 占.比例l example l 在我们班，女生人数占60%。l In our class ,the number of girl counts for 60%. 3.wordl restore v. .to bring sth. back; return (sth. or sb.) to an earlier condition or position l odds n.the probability that a particular thing will or will not happen l handy a.1) useful or convenient 2) able to use sth. skillfullyTHE RELATIONSHIP BEWEEN EQ AND IQl Which kind of person you are?A: high EQ,low IQB: high EQ,high IQC: low EQ,high IQD: low EQ,low IQ EQ text1如果我能到一个新的环境，我要把生活安排得：_ A、和从前相仿 B、不一定 C、和从前不一样2.当我集中精力工作时，假使有人在旁边高谈阔论：_ A、我仍能专心工作 B、介于A、C之间 C、我不能专心且感到愤怒3.我不论到什么地方，都能清楚地辨别方向：_ A、是的 B、不一定 C、不是的4.我善于控制自己的面部表情：_ A、是的 B、不太确定 C、不是的5.有人侵扰我时，我：_A、不露声色 B、介于A、C之间 C、大声抗议，以泄己愤IQ text1.男孩对男子，正如女孩对A青年 B孩子 C夫人 D姑娘 E妇女 2.如果笔相对于写字，那么书相对于 A娱乐 B阅读 C学文化 D解除疲劳3.如果所有的妇女都有大衣，那么漂亮的妇女会有 A更多的大衣 B时髦的大衣 C大衣 D昂贵的大衣4.找出不同类的一项： A写字台 B沙发 C电视 D桌布5.找出不同类的一项A铁锅 B小勺 C米饭 D碟子