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2018考研英语二新题型阅读源文7WaystobreaktheIcemakeAConversationWithAnyone1.ThefirstwordfloodGates-MyadviceJustsayit.SupposeyouareintheroomwithsomeoneyoudontknowyoulookacrosstheroomandyouseeastrangerandsomethingwithinyousaysthatIwanttotalkwiththispersonyouknowsomethingthatmostlyhappenswithallofus,YouwantedtosaysomethingtheFirstword.Itjustwontcomeout.Itfeelslikeitstucksomewhereandrefusedtocomeout.IknowthefeelinghereismyadviceJustSayit.Justthinkwhattheworstcouldhappen.Theywonttalkwithyou.Welltheyarenottalkingwithyounow.Itrulybelievethatonceyousaidfirstwordeverythingelsejustgetsflows.SokeepitsimpleHi,HeyorHellodowhatthebestpersoninyoudoesgatheralloftheenthusiasm,theenergy,putonabigsmileandsayHi.2.Skipthesmalltalk.Youknoweveryoneofusincludingmesometimesfacethisproblemeveryday.Youhavelimitedtimewiththatpersonyouwanttotalkyouwanttomakethistalkmemorable.Honestlyifwestuckintherutofhi,Hello,Howareyou?,whatsgoingon?,Nothingmuch,Sabbadiya!.Ifyoudothisyouwillfaittogiveinitialjolttotheconversationthatcanmakeconversationmemorable.SoIurgeyoutoSkipthesmalltalkandaskthereallypersonalquestionanddontbeafraid.Trustmeyoullbesurprisedtoseehowmuchpeoplearewillingtoshareifyoujustask.Soaskanypersonalquestionregardinghis/herinterestingnameAnystorybehindthis?,howlonghe/shelivinginthiscitydoyourememberfirstdayyoulandedinthisbeautifulcityetcetc.Thereareenormouswaysofaskingpersonalquestionwhichpeoplewontbitetoanswertrustmeonthat!.3.FindtheMeToos:Whenyoumeetthepersonforthefirsttimemakeaneffortstofindthethingswhichyouandthatpersonisincommonsothatyoucanbuildtheconversationfromthatpoint.Whenyoustartconversationfromthatpointthenmoveoutwardsfromthereyoullfindallofthesuddenthatconversationbecomelotmoreeasier.Thatisbecausebothofyouonthesamesideofgodknowssomethingwhichcommontobothyou.Thatsthepowerfulthing!.4.Payauniquecomplement.Ireadsomewherethatpeoplewillforgetwhatyoudo,theyforgetwhatyousaid,buttheyneverforgethowyoumadethemfeelhowyoutreatedthem.Sobegenerousgetyourdaamegooutsometimesgivesomeoneagenuinecomplement.Butbecautiousthatcomplementshouldbegenuineuniquetothepersonanditmostlyneverbeunheardoff.Letmegiveyouanexample,coupleofyearsbackwhenIwasathardrockcafinpunethereImetagorgeousgirl.Turnsoutsheisamodel.HearingthatIlookedatherandsaidWow!YouarebeautifultomysurprizetherewasnoreactiononherfaceIthinktomyselfHow?.ThatswhenIrealizedsheisimmunetothewordbeautiful.Becauseshemightheared1000oftimestillnow.Sotryandconstructacomplementthatisuniqueandgenuinecomplementdontlieplease.Peoplecansensethat.5.AskforanopinionWeallhaveanopinionweallwantthemtobeheardEverybodywantsavalidation.Sogoaheadandaskforanopinion.Thereyouhaveopenatwowaystreet,Thatswhentherealcommunicationbeginsyoullbesurprisedtoseehowmuchyoucanpickupfromthepersonjustbyaskingthereopinionongenericthings.Hereisamistakesthatsomepeoplemakes.TheyaskyouropiniononreallydifficultthingsEg:Someoneasksyouropinionaboutriseinaoilpricesandtheirimpactontheinflation.Itfeelslikeawkwardtoanswerthatifyoudontknowthesubjectmatteratall,isntit?SojustasksomethingsimpleandkeepitgenericlikeHowdoyoulikeacoffee?,Whenthelasttimeyouwatchedamovie?whensomeonegivesyoutheiropinionbesuretoLISTEN.6.BepresentImagineyouarepouringyourhearttosomeoneandhe/shejustbusyontheirphonechattingifyouaskfortheirattentionyougetaresponseIcanmultitask.Sowhensomeonetriestocommunicatewithyoujustbeinthatcommunicationwholeheartedly.AndmyfavouratepartMakeaneyecontact.Trustmeeyecontactiswhereallthemagichappens.Whenyoumakeaneyecontactyoucanfeeltheconversation.Letmeboostupyourmotivationwhiletalkingwhenyoulookintheireyes9outof10timestheywillnotlookaway.7.Name,Places,AnimalThings.Youallcameontoaconversationwhereyoumettheperson,aftersometimeyoumetagainandyouforgotthenameoftheperson.Isntthatawkward,Iftheyplaythegamewithyoutellmemyname?.Sorememberthelittledetailsofthepeopleyoumetoryoutalkedwithmaybetheplacestheybeento,theplacestheywanttogo,thethingstheylike,thethingstheyhatewhateverthereis.Whenyouremembersuchthingsyoucanautomaticallybecomeinvestorintheirwellbeing.Sotheyfellresponsibletoyoutokeepthatconversationgoing.Thatsit.7amazingwaysthatyoucanmakeconversationwithalmostanyone.Trustmeeverypersonisareallygoodbooktoreadtoortohaveaconversationwith.考试中的题目是：Fivewaystomakeconversationwithanyone选项是：A.bepresentB.justsayitC.askforanopinionD.name,places,thingsE.findthemetoos7WaystobreaktheIcemakeAConversationWithAnyone1.ThefirstwordfloodGates-MyadviceJustsayit.SupposeyouareintheroomwithsomeoneyoudontknowyoulookacrosstheroomandyouseeastrangerandsomethingwithinyousaysthatIwanttotalkwiththispersonyouknowsomethingthatmostlyhappenswithallofus,YouwantedtosaysomethingtheFirstword.Itjustwontcomeout.Itfeelslikeitstucksomewhereandrefusedtocomeout.IknowthefeelinghereismyadviceJustSayit.Justthinkwhattheworstcouldhappen.Theywonttalkwithyou.Welltheyarenottalkingwithyounow.Itrulybelievethatonceyousaidfirstwordeverythingelsejustgetsflows.SokeepitsimpleHi,HeyorHellodowhatthebestpersoninyoudoesgatheralloftheenthusiasm,theenergy,putonabigsmileandsayHi.2.Skipthesmalltalk.Youknoweveryoneofusincludingmesometimesfacethisproblemeveryday.Youhavelimitedtimewiththatpersonyouwanttotalkyouwanttomakethistalkmemorable.Honestlyifwestuckintherutofhi,Hello,Howareyou?,whatsgoingon?,Nothingmuch,Sabbadiya!.Ifyoudothisyouwillfaittogiveinitialjolttotheconversationthatcanmakeconversationmemorable.SoIurgeyoutoSkipthesmalltalkandaskthereallypersonalquestionanddontbeafraid.Trustmeyoullbesurprisedtoseehowmuchpeoplearewillingtoshareifyoujustask.Soaskanypersonalquestionregardinghis/herinterestingnameAnystorybehindthis?,howlonghe/shelivinginthiscitydoyourememberfirstdayyoulandedinthisbeautifulcityetcetc.Thereareenormouswaysofaskingpersonalquestionwhichpeoplewontbitetoanswertrustmeonthat!.3.FindtheMeToos:Whenyoumeetthepersonforthefirsttimemakeaneffortstofindthethingswhichyouandthatpersonisincommonsothatyoucanbuildtheconversationfromthatpoint.Whenyoustartconversationfromthatpointthenmoveoutwardsfromthereyoullfindallofthesuddenthatconversationbecomelotmoreeasier.Thatisbecausebothofyouonthesamesideofgodknowssomethingwhichcommontobothyou.Thatsthepowerfulthing!.4.Payauniquecomplement.Ireadsomewherethatpeoplewillforgetwhatyoudo,theyforgetwhatyousaid,buttheyneverforgethowyoumadethemfeelhowyoutreatedthem.Sobegenerousgetyourdaamegooutsometimesgivesomeoneagenuinecomplement.Butbecautiousthatcomplementshouldbegenuineuniquetothepersonanditmostlyneverbeunheardoff.Letmegiveyouanexample,coupleofyearsbackwhenIwasathardrockcafinpunethereImetagorgeousgirl.Turnsoutsheisamodel.HearingthatIlookedatherandsaidWow!YouarebeautifultomysurprizetherewasnoreactiononherfaceIthinktomyselfHow?.ThatswhenIrealizedsheisimmunetothewordbeautiful.Becauseshemightheared1000oftimestillnow.Sotryandconstructacomplementthatisuniqueandgenuinecomplementdontlieplease.Peoplecansensethat.5.AskforanopinionWeallhaveanopinionweallwantthemtobeheardEverybodywantsavalidation.Sogoaheadandaskforanopinion.Thereyouhaveopenatwowaystreet,Thatswhentherealcommunicationbeginsyoullbesurprisedtoseehowmuchyoucanpickupfromthepersonjustbyaskingthereopinionongenericthings.Hereisamistakesthatsomepeoplemakes.TheyaskyouropiniononreallydifficultthingsEg:Someoneasksyouropinionaboutriseinaoilpricesandtheirimpactontheinflation.Itfeelslikeawkwardtoanswerthatifyoudontknowthesubjectmatteratall,isntit?SojustasksomethingsimpleandkeepitgenericlikeHowdoyoulikeacoffee?,Whenthelasttimeyouwatchedamovie?whensomeonegivesyoutheiropinionbesuretoLISTEN.6.BepresentImagineyouarepouringyourhearttosomeoneandhe/shejustbusyontheirphonechattingifyouaskfortheirattentionyougetaresponseIcanmultitask.Sowhensomeonetriestocommunicatewithyoujustbeinthatcommunicationwholeheartedly.AndmyfavouratepartMakeaneyecontact.Trustmeeyecontactiswhereallthemagichappens.Whenyoumakeaneyecontactyoucanfeeltheconversation.Letmeboostupyourmotivationwhiletalkingwhenyoulookintheireyes9outof10timestheywillnotlookaway.7.Name,Places,AnimalThings.Youallcameontoaconversationwhereyoumettheperson,aftersometimeyoumetagainandyouforgotthenameoftheperson.Isntthatawkward,Iftheyplaythegamewithyoutellmemyname?.Sorememberthelittledetailsofthepeopleyoumetoryoutalkedwithmaybetheplacestheybeento,theplacestheywanttogo,thethingstheylike,thethingstheyhatewhateverthereis.Whenyouremembersuchthingsyoucanautomaticallybecomeinvestorintheirwellbeing.Sotheyfellresponsibletoyoutokeepthatconversationgoing.Thatsit.7amazingwaysthatyoucanmakeconversationwithalmostanyone.Trustmeeverypersonisareallygoodbooktoreadtoortohaveaconversationwith.考试中的题目是：Fivewaystomakeconversationwithanyone选项是：A.bepresentB.justsayitC.askforanopinionD.name,places,thingsE.findthemetoosF.payauniquecomplimentG.skipthesmalltalkF.payauniquecomplimentG.skipthesmalltalk