2019-2020同步外研英语选修六新突破讲义：Module 1 Section Ⅰ　Warming UpPre-reading & Reading .doc

一个人如果没有良好的社交能力，就难以在社会上真正立足。阅读下面的文章，体会社交能力的重要性。Among all the important skills of human beings, social skills are regarded as the most important.In an information age, communication with others in all walks of life plays an important role.No wonder that many students are deliberately working on their social skills.Common sense has told us that those who have successful love affairs usually possess excellent social skills. They are good at promoting an easygoing relation with their partners, which naturally results in a romantic affair. The same is true for family life. Good social skills are essential to keep family members on good terms with each other, bringing about a happy family life. Secondly, statistics show that ones career success depends heavily on his or her social skills. Professional skills are necessary,but without good social skills, a good teamwork is hardly imaginable, which would undoubtedly hinder the full play of professional skills. Examples are not rarely seen from people who are talented and have reached high level of academic development, but have finally come to nothing due to their poor social skills. In conclusion, if we are to lead a happy life and succeed in career, we must improve ourselves in such social skills as the skill in communicating on a feeling level, the skill in developing and using interpersonal relations and so on.阅读障碍词1deliberately adv.故意地，有意地2possess v. 拥有3promote v. 促进4hinder v. 阻碍，妨碍诱思导读What is the passage mainly about?The importance of social skills.Section Warming Up，Prereading & Reading.匹配下列单词的词性及汉语意思()1.informalAn.机会()2.serious Bn.责任；义务()3.confidently Cv.点头()4.lack Dv.叹气，叹息()5.advance Ev. 打呵欠()6.nod Fv.缺乏，缺少()7.yawn Gadj.严肃的()8.sigh Hadj.非正式的()9.opportunityIadj.预先的，在前的()10.obligation Jadv.自信地答案15HGJFI610CEDAB.选择下列句中词组的汉语意思A交朋友，建立友谊B对神经紧张/害怕/胆怯/焦虑不安C想起，回忆起D把目光从移开E除此之外，另外F了解(到)；找出(信息)1You need money and time.In addition, you need diligence. 2He doesnt like making friends, so he always feels lonely. 3Dont be nervous about your illness.Its nothing serious. 4Its impolite to look away from the person when you are talking with him or her. 5The moment I see the photo, I always think of the happy childhood in the countryside. 6Scientists havent found out the real reason why dinosaurs became extinct millions of years ago. 答案16EABDCFHow Good Are Your Social Skills?Have you ever crossed the road to avoid talking to someone you recognise? Would you love to go to a party and talk confidently to every guest？Do you want to make more friends but lack the confidence to talk to people you dont know？ And are you nervous about the idea of being at a social event in another country? Dont worrywe can help you！你的社交技能有多好？你是否做过这样的事情：看见认识的人以后，故意过马路以避免与其说话？你是否愿意参加聚会并自信地和每位宾客交谈？你是否想结交更多的朋友但又缺乏与陌生人交谈的信心？你是否对要在别的国家参加社交活动的想法感到忐忑不安？别担心我们能帮助你！助读讲解Would you love to .? 意为“你愿意？”。you dont know为定语从句，修饰先行词people，省略了关系词who(m)/that。You neednt worry about situations like these if you have good social skills. And they are easy to learn. People with good social skills communicate well and know how to have a conversation. It helps if you do a little advance planning.如果你具备良好的社交技能，你就不必担心诸如此类的情况。而且这些技巧学起来容易。具备良好社交技能的人能很好地和别人交流并且知道怎样交谈。如果预先做些计划，那将对你有所帮助。助读讲解注意此句型是“主语beadj.to do”，不定式常用主动形式表示被动意义。It在本句中作形式主语，if引导的从句作真正的主语。Here are a few ideas to help you.Learn how to do small talkSmall talk is very important and prepares you for more serious conversations. Be prepared! Have some lowrisk conversation openers ready. For example：think of a recent news story not too serious, e. ga story about a film star or sports starthink of things to tell people about your studiesthink of “safe” things you can ask peoples opinions aboutmusic, sport，films，etc.think of topics that you would avoid if you were talking to strangersand avoid talking about them! That way, you dont damage your confidence！下面为你出些主意。学习怎样聊天聊天是很重要的，它能使你为一些更严肃的谈话做好准备。有备无患！准备好几句不太会出错的开场白。例如：回忆起一则最近的新闻报道不要太严肃，譬如，一则有关电影明星或体育明星的新闻报道想出一些有关你的学业的事情来告诉别人想出一些你能询问别人意见的“安全”的事情音乐、体育、电影等想出一些和陌生人谈话时要回避的话题并且要避免谈论这些话题！那样你的自信心就不会被伤害了！助读讲解you can ask peoples opinions about为定语从句，修饰先行词things，此处省略了关系词that/which。that you would avoid为定语从句，修饰先行词topics，if从句中的be动词用了were，属于虚拟语气的用法。Develop your listening skillsListening is a skill which most people lack， but communication is a twoway process it involves speaking AND listening.Always remember you wont impress people if you talk too much. Here are some ideas to make you a better listener：Do .show that you are listening by using encouraging noises and gestures smiling, nodding, saying “uhhuh”and“OK”，etc.keep good eye contactuse positive body languageask for more information to show your interestDont .look at your watchyawnsighlook away from the person whos talking to youchange the subjectfinish other peoples sentences for themAlways remember the words of Benjamin Disraeli, British Prime Minister in the 19th century：“Talk to a man about himself，and he will speak to you for hours！”加强你的倾听技能倾听是大多数人所缺乏的技巧，而交流是双向的过程它包括说和听两个方面。要永远记住如果你说太多并不会给人留下什么好印象。下面是一些使你成为更好的倾听者的方法：要用一些鼓励的话和示意动作表示你正在倾听微笑、点头、说“嗯”和“对啊”等保持良好的目光接触使用积极的肢体语言询问更多的信息以表示你的兴趣不要看你的手表打呵欠叹气把目光从正跟你说话的人身上移开改变话题替别人把话说完要始终牢记19世纪英国首相本杰明迪斯雷利的话：“和一个人谈论他自己，他会和你说上几个小时！”助读讲解which most people lack为定语从句，修饰先行词a skill。Learn the rulesIf you go to a social occasion in another country, remember that social rules(社交规则) can be different. In some countries, for example, you have to arrive on time at a party; in other countries, you dont need to. In addition(另外), you need to know how long you should stay，and when you have to leave. Some hosts expect flowers or a small gift，but in other places，you can take things, but you neednt if you dont want to.Remember also that in some countries，you mustnt take flowers of a certain colour, because theyre unlucky. In most places，yon dont have to take a gift to a party but find out(了解) first！学习(这些)规则如果你在另一个国家参加社交活动，要记住社交规则可能会有所不同。例如，在一些国家，你得准时参加聚会；而在其他国家就不需要。另外，你需要知道该呆多久，还有该在何时离开。有的主人期待(能得到)鲜花或一个小礼物，而在另一些地方，你可以(给主人)带些东西，但如果你不想带也可以不带。还有，要记住在有的国家你不能带某种颜色的鲜花，因为那是不吉利的。在大多数地方，参加聚会是不必带礼物的但你首先得了解！助读讲解you dont need to为省略形式，to后省略了arrive on time，不定式符号to不可以省略。此处and连接两个并列的宾语从句。if you dont want to中want to后面省略了take things。第一步速读了解文章主题和段落大意速读P23教材课文，匹配段落大意1Paras.13 AHow to do small talk2Para.4 BDos and donts while listening3Paras.58 CThe social rules4Para.9 DIntroduction of the main idea of the passage答案14DABC第二步细读把控文章关键信息细读P23教材课文，选择最佳答案1Which of the following is NOT true?AKeep good eye contact when you are listening to others.BUse positive body language to help you leave a good impression when you are listening to others.CSocial rules are different from country to country.DNever ask for more information to show you are interested.2What can we learn from what Benjamin Disraeli says?ATalking more about the other helps make a good conversation.BWhen you are talking with each other, talk more about other people.CWhen you are talking with each other, never talk about the other.DTalking more about yourself will impress the other in the conversation.3The author thinks that according to the passage.Athe majority of people dont have good listening skillsBwhen listening to the other person, you should keep silent and not get in any wordCif you know what the speaker will say, you can speak it out for him or herDcommunication is just a matter of speaking4It is advised in the passage that before going to a social occasion in a foreign country, you should .Afind out the social rules of the country firstBprepare flowers or a giftCmake sure you arrive on timeDprepare flowers of a certain colour答案14DAAA第三步研读能力升华接轨高考根据P23教材课文，在空白处填入1个适当的单词或括号内单词的正确形式You might cross the road to avoid 1.talking(talk) to someone you recognise, or you would love to go to a party and talk 2.confidently(confident) to every guest. You neednt worry about 3.situations(situation)like these if you have good social skills. People with good social skills communicate well and know how 4.to have(have) a conversation. 5.It helps if you do a little advance planning.Small talk is very important and 6.prepares(prepare) you for more serious conversations. Have some lowrisk conversation openers ready. And listening is a skill 7.that/which most people lack, but 8.communication(communicate) is a twoway processit involves speaking and listening. Always rememberpeople wont be impressed 9.with you if you talk too much.If you go to a social occasion in another country, remember that social rules can be 10.different(differ)