UNIT4 MAKING A GOOD IMPRESSION.ppt
Unit 4 Making a Good ImpressionUnit 4 Making a Good Impressionnetwork favorite positive attentive freindlynegativeHow to make a good impression？mI.Take the initiatve to say hello to each other 一 主动向对方打招呼mII.Show the name slightly 二 报姓名时略加说明mIII.pay attention to your facial expression 三 注意自己的表情mIV.Identify with each others common ground 四 找出双方的共同点mV.Understand each others interests,hobbies 五 了解对方的兴趣、爱好mVI.Guide each other about things proud 六 引导对方谈得意之事mVII.Find small changes in a timely manner 七 适时指出对方的小变化mVIII.Sitting straight 八 挺直的坐姿mIX.Properly“echo”each other 九 恰如其分的“附和”对方mX.Dont overlook ways to break up 十 不要忽略分手的方式steps2.Possible difficult words and 2.Possible difficult words and expressionsexpressions3.Listening In3.Listening In4.Speaking Out4.Speaking Out1.Lead-in activities1.Lead-in activities1.1 Lead-in activitiesIn your opinion,how to make a good impression at the first sight?1.Dress yourself better and comfortablemFirst of all,you should dress clean and tidy.Good appearance is vital in any public meetings.People will first catch a short glimpse of your appearance,and remember it firmly.That is called the first effect or primacy effect(首因效应)。After finding that you are a neat guy,they will then be glad to talk to you.mFirst effect(首因效应)：人际交往中，人们首次留给别人的印象比较牢固、鲜明、深刻，对人的认知过程有非常重要的先入为主的作用。2.Have confidence in yourself.To make a good impression,we have to have deep confidence in ourselves.If you are calm and confident,the other person will feel more at ease and this makes a solid foundation of a good first impression.Factors of showing confidenceSpeaking(speed and emotion)Dressing(tidy and comfotable)Facial expression（smile,looking into others eyes)Body language(head up,back straight)1.2 Possible difficult words and expressions 1.2.1 Ten short conversationsmso long as:只要，如果；既然，由于 They are tolerable so long as tomorrow is better.只要明天会更好，这一切就都可以忍受。mature:adj.full-grown,adult,ripe（人、树木、鸟或动物）成熟的;仔细考虑过的;到期（应该支付）的;成年人的;反义词：immature vi.成熟，长成;（票据等）到期;vt.使成熟;使长成;慎重拟定（计划等）;Hopefully after three years at university I will have matured.希望3年大学生活之后我能变成熟。mAggressive:angry,and behaving in a threatening way;ready to attack 好斗的；挑衅的；富于攻击的mpromote:vt.促进，推进;提升，助长;促销;使（学生）升级;There is huge social pressure to promote women.有巨大的社会压力要求提拔女性。to be promoted:晋升，被提拔mstay positive:保持积极的态度；保持乐观 Im choosing to stay positive today.当然，我今天选择让自己保持积极乐观。mTake an instant liking to sb.:一见钟情 love sb.at the first sight awful:adj.糟糕的;可怕的;非常的;极坏的;adv.非常，极;Suddenly,in the moonlight,I saw the monsters awful face looking at me.突然，在月光下我看见那个怪物的恐怖的脸正看着我。1.3 Listening-in 1.Look at the answers quickly and guess whats the main idea of each conversation,including where，when,who,what and how.2.Listen to the CD,find the right answer,and explain the sentences if necessary.mFill ones needs:meet ones needs:满足某人需要mBe in good shape:be in a good condition:处于良好的状态 1.2.2 A passage About the movie A Beautiful Mind I am only here because of you,you are the only reason I am,you are all the reason.John Nash(when accepting the Nobel Prize)John Nash The character of the movie is based on John Nash,a mathematician in USA,created theories in math.He had many questions in his life,and he faced challenges of many different kinds.After years of hardship,he discovered that love is the source of lifes answers.His wife,Alicia,gave him that love,and he appreciated it deeply.1.4 Comment on A Beautiful Mind:无欲则刚 John Nash，一个不折不扣的伟大天才，一个不折不扣的伟大疯子。1947年，他来到普林斯顿大学，他想要成为英雄，用数字和逻辑救赎世人，这野心如此自私，又如此伟大，就象他的博弈论，在考虑到个人最大利益的基础上能给予团队的最大利益。这是他唯一想的，也是他一直执着于做的。只是，John没有想到，这会沉重到让自己敏感的心灵无力承担。于是，在真实世界中无处伸展的欲望只能在幻想的世界里肆意张扬，他成了自己幻想中的英雄。他成了疯子。1.4 Comment on A Beautiful Mind:无欲则刚 痛苦的治疗之后，他的欲望终于不再是拯救世界，而是让这个他曾经竭力梦想要拯救的世界来重新接纳他，重新给他机会去研究他心爱的数学。这个过程象一场没有人可以看到的战争，他独自对抗着心里的欲望和整个世界嘲弄的眼神。让人欣慰的是，他遇到了无条件支持他的家人和朋友。他回到了普林斯顿。昔日同窗对手，此时的老朋友，相隔多年的两盘围棋，时光流逝中，总是有些什么，在沉痛之外，有温暖的余光，照耀他一路艰辛。如果故事在John精神分裂的时候结束，那么这会是一个寓言，用教导的口气告诉世人，欲望无边，即使那念头堂皇无私，也会堕入深渊。可是John之所以伟大，就在于他在沉溺之后，选择无视自己的欲望，或者说，他学会了控制自己的欲望。于是，这个故事便成了一个传奇，他最终以一个疯子的姿态站在了常人无法企及的高度上。他成了一个需要被仰视的伟大的人。人与欲望之间，是一场没有硝烟永不会结束的战争，John胜在他坚持着从不退却。1.4 Speaking out
