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Words to remembervExpression for politeness:vI am sorry,but what can I do for you?vThis might be a good time to get acquainted.I amI am glad to see sb do sth,FeelingFeelings.mp3vFeelings,nothing more than feelings,trying to forget my feelings of love.Tear drops,rolling down on my face,trying to forget my feelings of love.vWords for anger:vBlow upvLose your coolvFly off the handlevIn a ragevFlare upvMadvwrathvWords for expensive:vCost a fortune.vSave for months to buy it.vPhrases to invite to dinnervFeel like a bite to eat afterwards.I am starving.vFeelings,for all my life Ill feel it.I wish Ive never met you,girl.Youve never come again.Feelings,FeelingsFeel you again in my arms.vFeelings,feelings like Ive never lost you,and feelings like Ill never have youagain in my heart,vFeelings,for all my life Ill feel it.I wish Ive never met you,girl.Youve never come again.vFeelings,feelings like Ive never lost you,and feelings like Ill never have youagain in my life.Feelings,FeelingsAgain in my heart.Feelings,Feelings.vResearchers claim to have found the happiest man in America.He is Alvin Wong,a 65-year-old,married,Chinese-American who is now living in Hawaii.vMr.Wong was,contacted after three years of a Gallup Well-Being Index（盖洛普幸福指数）survey asking Americans about their emotional position,job satisfaction,diet,health,stress levels and other things.vHis characteristics and personal information matched a statistical composite(综合指标）for the happiest person in America.He was found through a church in Honolulu,the capital city of Hawaii,the happiest state in the country to live.vOther factors that contributed to Mr.Wong ranking first in the survey were his height,age,and wealth-he earns$120,000 a year by running his own health company business.He said,My life philosophy is,if you cant laugh at yourself,life is going to be pretty terrible for you.“vIts findings followed other research that showed that happiness begins at 50.A study from Stony Brook University,New York,found that stress,anger and worry fade after the half century mark.Women were also reported to suffer greater stress,worry and sadness at all ages.Some questions about feelingsWhy do we feel happy sometimes and depressed sometimesvThe weather,or stress situations,hormonal etc.vit is in ur attitude.when sitting besides ur girl friend(if u r a boy)u could sit for hours.but can u sit on the stove.this is simple version as explained by ALBERT EINSTEIN.IN HIS THEORYvIt always happens with your financial freedom.Money can make a person wiser or duffer.But in real life there shall be no relation of happiness or depression with materialism.Wiser person never feel depressed even in difficult situations.The person must find out the happiness in the otherwise situations also.Wish you happy moments all the life.vthats what lifes about How do you fight boredom and stressvi really dont have an answer for that but the thing is you better get away from what ever your stresses over because that can kill you quick vpopcorn,beer,and a movie.if you arent too stressed to sleep,even better.hmm.sleep.i really should go.vgive you only one:all the old habits do it in a new way.I.e:if you walk,do a short step and after a long one.not all steps equals:)if you speak,put attention on lips rather then on words;if you eat or write,use your left hand.when you feel boredom,try to feel also the absence of boredom;)when you are stressed,observe in peace that you are stressed:)hard?vHow to get rid of boredom.drop out of school!How to get rid of stress.drop out of school!dropping out of school will solve many other problems as well.:)IS it good to pretend your happy all the time even if you know its not true?vYou should not feel like you have to act happy to come across as confident because you can actually be coming off as upset and people think that you are faking being happy.vIt really isnt good for your health and emotions to pretend to feel happy when you really feel another way.You can exhaust yourself from pretending and your emotions can get mixed up and confused.If you want to come off as more confident you should just be yourself because the way you actually feel will make you feel confident because you know that you dont have to be something youre not.And besides,the way you actually feel can make people think that youre confident but how will you know until you try?vAs a mental health practitioner with 20+years experience,now retired,I can tell you that what youre doing is a wonderful prescription for insanity,ulcers and heart attack,to name just a few.vIf you keep it up,you can have all sorts of psychosomatic illnesses that can get you hospitalized and dead.Obviously,if Im reading your question correctly,youve been doing this for quite a while,and so you need some professional guidance in the best ways to change your course of life so that you wont go nuts in the meantime,vIf you want to see some of the potential psychosomatic illnesses you can get,go get a copy of the American Psychiatric Associations Diagnostic and Statistical Manual(DSM)of Mental Disorders,and have a look.And realize,they cover only a portion of said possibilities,so you can have all sorts of problems that they havent included in their huge manual.In the meantime,take our recommendation and go get counseling.vEven if you dont go nuts or die from some psychologically imposed illness,I can guarantee you that youre not someone people like to be around.People can sense the psychological pressure that youre trying to deny,and it doesnt feel good to them,even though,they,too,have learned to try to smile and sound happy around you when they wish youd go get help.Trust me on this one.God Bless youWhat is your biggest fear?
