梁实秋：蓦然一惊人生已过半.docx
梁实秋：蓦然一惊，人生已过半STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">2017-03-04太和紫隐STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">钟表上的时针是在慢慢的移动着的，移动的如此之慢，使你几乎不感觉到它的移动。STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">人的年纪也是这样的，一年又一年，总有一天你会蓦然一惊，已经到了中年。到这时候大概有两件事使你不能不注意，讣闻不断的来，有些性急的朋友已经先走一步，很煞风景，同时又会忽然觉得一大批一大批的青年小伙子在眼前出现，从前也不知是在什么地方藏着的，如今一齐在你眼前摇晃，磕头碰脑的尽是些昂然阔步满面春风的角色，都像是要去吃喜酒的样子。STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">自己的伙伴一个个的都入蛰了，把世界交给了青年人。所谓“耳畔频闻故人死，眼前但见少年多，正是一般人中年的写照。STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">年青人没有不好照镜子的，在店铺的大玻璃窗前照一下都是好的，总觉得大致上还有几分姿色。STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">这顾影自怜的习惯逐渐消失，以至于有一天偶然揽镜，突然发现额上刻了横纹，那线条是显明而有力，像是吴道子的“莼菜描，心想那是抬头纹，可是低头也还是那样。STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">再一细看头顶上的头发有搬家到腮旁颔下的趋势，而最令人怵目惊心的是，鬃角上发现几根白发，这一惊非同小可，平素一毛不拔的人到这时候也不免要狠心的把它拔去，拔毛连茹，头发根上还许带着一颗鲜亮的肉珠。但是没有用，岁月不饶人！STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">一般的女人到了中年，更着急。那个年青女子不是饱满丰润得像一颗牛奶葡萄，一弹就破的样子？那个年青女子不是玲珑矫健得像一只燕子，跳动得那么轻灵？STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">到了中年，全变了。曲线还存在，但满不是那么回事，该凹入的部份变成了凸出，该凸出的部份变成了凹入，牛奶葡萄要变成为金丝蜜枣，燕子要变鹌鹑。STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">最暴露在外面的是一张脸，从“鱼尾起皱纹撤出一面网，纵横辐辏，疏而不漏，把脸逐渐织成一幅铁路线最发达的地图，脸上的皱纹已经不是烫斗所能烫得平的，同时也不知怎么在皱纹之外还常常加上那么多的苍蝇屎。STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">所以脂粉不可少。除非粪土之墙，没有不可污的道理。在原有的一张脸上再罩上一张脸，本是最简便的事。不过在上妆之前、下妆之后，容易令人联想起（聊斋志异）的那一篇（画皮）而已。STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">女人的肉好像最禁不起地心的吸力，一到中年便一齐松懈下来往下堆摊，成堆的肉挂在脸上，挂在腰边，挂在踝际。STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">听说有许多西洋女子用赶面杖似的一根棒子早晚混身乱搓，希望把浮肿的肉压得结实一点；又有些人干脆忌食脂肪忌食淀粉，扎紧裤带，活生生的把自己“饿回青春去。有多少效果，我不知道。STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">别以为人到中年，就算完事。不。譬如登临，人到中年像是攀跻到了最高峰，回头看看，一串串的小伙子正在“头也不回呀，汗也不揩的往上爬。STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">再仔细看看，路上有好多块绊脚石，曾把自己磕碰得鼻青脸肿，有好多处陷阱，使自己做了若干年的井底之蛙。STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">回想从前，自己做过扑灯蛾，惹火焚身；自己做过撞窗户纸的苍蝇，一心愿奔光明，结果落在粘苍蝇的胶纸上！这种种景象的观察，只有站在最高峰上才有可能。向前看，前面是下坡路，好走得多。STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">施耐庵水浒序云：“人生三十未娶，不应再娶；四十未仕，不应再仕。其实“娶“仕都是小事，不娶不仕也罢，只是这种说法有点中途弃权的意味。西谚云。“人的生活在四十开始。好像四十以前，不过是几出配戏，好戏都在后面。我想这与健康有关。STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">吃窝头米糕长大的人，拖到中年就算不易，生命力已经蒸发殆尽。这样的人焉能再娶？何必再仕？服“维他赐保命都嫌来不及了。STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">我看见过一些得天独厚的男男女女，年青的时候楞头楞脑的，浓眉大眼，生僵挺硬，像是一些又青又涩的毛挑子，上面还带着挺长的一层毛。他们是未经琢磨过的璞石。STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">可是到了中年，他们变得润泽了，容光焕发，脚底下像是有了弹簧，一看就知道是内容充实的。他们的生活像是在饮窖藏多年的陈酿，浓而劳洌！对于他们，中年没有悲哀。STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">四十开始生活，不算晚，问题在“生活二字如何诠释。如果年届不惑，再学习溜冰踢踺子放风筝，“偷闲学少年，那自然有如秋行春令，有点勉强。半老徐娘，留着“刘海，躲在茅房里穿高跟鞋当做踩高跷般的练习走路，那也是惨事。STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">中年的妙趣，在于相当的认识人生，认识自己，从而作自己所能作的事，享受自己所能享受的生活。科班的童伶宜于唱全本的大武戏，中年的演员才能担得起大出的轴子戏，只因他到中年才能真懂得戏的内容。STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);">STYLE="margin:0px0px5px;padding:0px;border:0px;list-style:none;word-wrap:normal;word-break:normal;color:rgb(50,62,50);font-family:'MicrosoftYaHei','Helveticaneue',simsun;background-color:rgb(233,165,51);" 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