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1、2022年父母过于娇纵孩子 The childs happiness is al I-important, the psychologists say, but what about the parents happiness? Parents suffer constantly from fear and guilt while their children gaily romp about pulling the place apart. A good old-fashioned spanking is out of the question: no modern child-rearin

2、g manual would permit such barbarity. The trouble is you are not allowed even to shout. Who knows what dccp psychological wounds you might inflict? Certainly a child needs love, and a lot of it. But the excessive permissiveness of modern parents is surely doing more harm than good. 心理学家们说孩子的华蜜是至关重要的

3、，那么，父母们的华蜜又如何呢?当孩子们欢蹦乱跳地游戏玩耍把家里闹个底儿朝天时，他们的父母却忍受着担忧和负疚的熬煎。要想像前人一样狠狠地揍他一顿屁股是根本不行能的了，因为现代育儿指南绝不会允许这种野蛮行径。麻烦的是，甚至连大声吼他一顿也不行以。谁能说清你这一吼会给孩子造成多么深的心灵创伤呢?诚然，孩子们须要爱，许很多多的爱，但是现代父母过度的娇纵肯定是弊大于利。 Lax authority over the years makes adolescent rebellion against parents all the more violent. If the young people are

4、going to have a party, for instance, parents are asked to leave the house. Their presence merely spoils the fun. What else can the poor parents do but obey? 多年来父母的权威松懈，年少的孩子们的抗拒则愈加剧烈了。举个例子说吧，当年轻人聚会时，父母便被要求离开家，因为他们在场只会扫了大家的玩兴。这些可怜的父母们除了乖乖地听从还能做什么呢? Children are hardy creatures and most of them surviv

5、e the harmful influence of extreme permissiveness which is the normal condition in the modern household. But a great many do not. The spread of juvenile delinquency in our own age is largely due to parental laxity. 孩子是一种强壮的生物，远比心理学家告知我们的要强壮。过度娇纵孩子已经成为现代家庭中一种很普遍的现象，而大多数孩子能克服其不良影响而成长起来。但是也有相当数量的孩子未曾幸免

6、。当今社会，青少年犯罪问题的日益严峻，在相当大的程度上正是由于父母管教不力所致。 The psychologists have much to answer for. They should keep their mouths shut and let parents get on with the job.And if children are knocked about a little bit in the process, it may not really matter too much. At least this will help them to develop vigorou

7、s views of their own and give them something positive to react against. Perhaps theres some truth in the idea that children who ve had an excess of happiness in their childhood fail to make a success of life. 心理学家应当对此负相当大的责任。他们应当闭上嘴巴，让父母们自主地管教孩子。假如在这个过程中，父母对孩子略微粗暴了一点，那其实也没有什么大不了。至少，这有助于他们培育自己坚决的主见，并给他们供应对详细事情做出反应的机会。有一种观点认为，在孩童时代享受过多华蜜的孩子，创建不出胜利的人生。此话或许不无道理。 第3页 共3页第 3 页 共 3 页第 3 页 共 3 页第 3 页 共 3 页第 3 页 共 3 页第 3 页 共 3 页第 3 页 共 3 页第 3 页 共 3 页第 3 页 共 3 页第 3 页 共 3 页第 3 页 共 3 页