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1、精选优质文档-倾情为你奉上01. Remember to say thank youHi. Im here to talk to you about the importance of praise, admiration and thank you, and having it be specific and genuine.And the way I got interested in this was, I noticed in myself, when I was growing up, and until about a few years ago, that I would wan
2、t to say thank you to someone, I would want to praise them, I would want to take in their praise of me and Id just stop it. And I asked myself, why? I felt shy, I felt embarrassed. And then my question became, am I the only one who does this? So, I decided to investigate.Im fortunate enough to work
3、in the rehab facility, so I get to see people who are facing life and death with addiction. And sometimes it comes down to something as simple as, their core wound is their father died without ever saying hes proud of them. But then, they hear from all the family and friends that the father told eve
4、rybody else that he was proud of him, but he never told the son. Its because he didnt know that his son needed to hear it.So my question is, why dont we ask for the things that we need? I know a gentleman, married for 25 years, whos longing to hear his wife say, Thank you for being the breadwinner,
5、so I can stay home with the kids, but wont ask. I know a woman whos good at this. She, once a week, meets with her husband and says, Id really like you to thank me for all these things I did in the house and with the kids. And he goes, Oh, this is great, this is great. And praise really does have to
6、 be genuine, but she takes responsibility for that. And a friend of mine, April, who Ive had since kindergarten, she thanks her children for doing their chores. And she said, Why wouldnt I thank it, even though theyre supposed to do it?So, the question is, why was I blocking it? Why were other peopl
7、e blocking it? Why can I say, Ill take my steak medium rare, I need size six shoes, but I wont say, Would you praise me this way? And its because Im giving you critical data about me. Im telling you where Im insecure. Im telling you where I need your help. And Im treating you, my inner circle, like
8、youre the enemy. Because what can you do with that data? You could neglect me. You could abuse it. Or you could actually meet my need.And I took my bike into the bike store- I love this - same bike, and theyd do something called truing the wheels. The guy said, You know, when you true the wheels, it
9、s going to make the bike so much better. I get the same bike back, and theyve taken all the little warps out of those same wheels Ive had for two and a half years, and my bike is like new. So, Im going to challenge all of you. I want you to true your wheels: be honest about the praise that you need
10、to hear. What do you need to hear? Go home to your wife - go ask her, what does she need? Go home to your husband - what does he need? Go home and ask those questions, and then help the people around you.And its simple. And why should we care about this? We talk about world peace. How can we have wo
11、rld peace with different cultures, different languages? I think it starts household by household, under the same roof. So, lets make it right in our own backyard. And I want to thank all of you in the audience for being great husbands, great mothers, friends, daughters, sons. And maybe somebodys nev
12、er said that to you, but youve done a really, really good job. And thank you for being here, just showing up and changing the world with your ideas.02. The benefits of a bilingual brainHablas espaol? Parlez-vous franais? ni hui shuo zhong wen ma? If you answered “si”,”oui” or ”hui” and you are watch
13、ing this in English, chances are you belong to the world bilingual and multilingual majority. And besides having an easier time traveling, or watching movies without subtitles, knowing two or more languages means that your brain may actually look and work differently than those of your monolingual f
14、riends. So what does it really mean to know a language?Language ability is typically measured in two active parts, speaking and writing, and two passive parts, listening and reading. While a balanced bilingual has near equal abilities across the board in two languages, most bilinguals around the wor
15、ld know and use their languages in vary proportions. And depending on their situation and how they acquired each language, they can be classified into three general types.For example, lets take Gabriella, whose family immigrates to the US from Peru when she was two-years old. As a compound bilingual
16、, Gabriella develops two linguistic codes simultaneously, with a single set of concepts, learning both English and Spanish as she begins to process the world around her. Her teenage brother, on the other hand, might be a coordinate bilingual, working with two sets of concepts, learning English in sc
17、hool, while continuing to speak Spanish at home and with friends.Finally, Gabriellas parents are likely to be subordinate bilinguals who learned a secondary language by filtering it through their primary language.Because all types of bilingual people can become fully proficient in a language regardl
18、ess of accent and pronunciation, the difference may not be apparent to be a casual observer. But recent advances in imaging technology have given neurolinguists a glimpse into how specific aspects of language learning affect the bilingual brain.Its well known that the brains left hemisphere is more
19、dominant and analytical in logical processes, while the right hemisphere is more active in emotional and social ones, though this is a matter of degree, not an absolute split.The fact that language involves both types of functions while lateralization develops gradually with age, has lead to the cri
20、tical period hypothesis. According to this theory, children learn languages more easily because the plasticity of their developing brains let them use both hemispheres in language acquisition, while in most adults, language is lateralized to one hemisphere, usually the left.If this is true, learning
21、 a language in childhood may give you a more holistic grasp of its social and emotional contexts. Conversely, recent research showed that people who learned a second language in adulthood exhibit less emotional bias and a more rational approach when confronting problems in the second language than t
22、heir native one.But regardless of when you acquire additional languages, being multilingual gives your brain some remarkable advantages. Some of these are even visible, such higher density of the gray matter that contains most of your brains neurons and synapses, and more activity in certain regions
23、 when engaging a second language. The heightened workout a bilingual brain receives throughout its life can also help delay the onset of diseases, like Alzheimers and Dementia by as much as 5 years.The idea of major cognitive benefits to bilingualism may seem intuitive now, but it would have surpris
24、ed earlier experts. Before the 1960s, bilingualism was considered a handicap that slowed the childs development by forcing them to spend them too much energy distinguishing between languages, a view based largely on flawed studies.And while a more recent study did show that reaction times and errors
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