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1、精选优质文档-倾情为你奉上Everyone Needs love and BelongingnessThere are so many strangers and roads in this vast world. HeNan province has a population of almost 100 million.China has a population of 1.3 billion and the whole world has a large population of 7 billion.Can you sleep well and never insomnia in the

2、 dark? Can you find the feeling of being loved from the strangers? Can you seek out belongingness when you stand on the roadside or sit in the cafe? Are you feeling lonely when you alone? Everyone needs love and belongingness.According to : one of the levels of human needs is love and belongingness

3、needs. humans need to feel a sense of belonging and acceptance among their social groups, regardless if these groups are large or small.Human also need to love and be loved-both sexually and non-sexually.Many people become susceptible to loneliness, social anxiety, and clinical depression in the abs

4、ence of this love or belonging element. This need for love and belonging may overcome the physiological and security needs.This article, short but full of profound meaning. There were three person in this article and all of them were protagonists. The old man liked to sit late because he was deaf an

5、d now at night it was quiet and he felt the difference. Why didnt he buy a bottle and drink home? How could a deaf man feel the difference? He didnt say any word about what he was thinking in his heart. But on the foundation of the description of the environment where the tables were all empty excep

6、t where the old man sat in the shadow of the leaves of the tree that moved slightly in the wind. There is no doubt for us to know the old mans loneliness. A single deaf was not willing to sleep in the dark alone at home. He need belongingness and be loved, so he liked to stay in a clean, well-Lighte

7、d place. Even it was very late. He also tried to commit suicide because he was in despair. He had plenty of money but he couldnt get belongingness and love from others.Death means another kind of belongingness for him.There was a young waiter who had a wife.He was in a hurry to get back home. Becaus

8、e he saidHes lonely. Im not lonely. I have a wife waiting in bed for me. He couldnt understand the loneliness of the old man. Because he had belongingness and this feeling came from his family. He also had love and this feeling came from his wife. A person who own love and belongingness could be sat

9、isfied with the society and life. So he was in a hurry to get back home and he evaluated the old man:I wouldnt want to be that old. An old man is a nasty thing. He owned love and belongingness and he didnt want to lose this feeling.There is a another person-the old waiter. At the end of this article

10、, he said What did he fear? It was not a fear or dread, It was a nothing that he knew too well. It was all a nothing and a man was a nothing too. But what does the nada in this waiters heart mean? In fact, this old waiter is so lonely. And the nada is the source of his loneliness. He evaluated the y

11、oung waiter You have youth, confidence, and a job,You have everything.And he also evaluated himself I have never had confidence and I am not young. And in fact what he lack is not confidence but love and belongingness. Because of lacking love, he said:I am of those who like to stay late at the cafe,

12、 with all those who do not want to go to bed. With all those who need a light for the night. Because of lacking belongingness, he said:It was the light of course but it is necessary that the place be clean and pleasant.Because of lacking love and belongingness so he said:Why didnt you let him stay a

13、nd drink? He didnt wish the old deaf man go back home. He could understand the old mans loneliness. They were the same person. Both of them were lacking love and belongingness. They were trying looking for them.As a matter of fact. The number of those people who lacked of love and belongingness like

14、 them is a lot. Just like the end of this article:After all, he said to himself, its probably only insomnia. Many must have it. This world is so large and strange that too many people insomnia.Too many people feel lonely. Too many people are seeking for love and belongingness.Nobody wants to be ignored. Everyone needs love and belongingness. 专心-专注-专业