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1、2018考研英语二新题型阅读源文7WaystobreaktheIcemakeAConversationWithAnyone1.ThefirstwordfloodGates-MyadviceJustsayit.SupposeyouareintheroomwithsomeoneyoudontknowyoulookacrosstheroomandyouseeastrangerandsomethingwithinyousaysthatIwanttotalkwiththispersonyouknowsomethingthatmostlyhappenswithallofus,Youwantedtosays

2、omethingtheFirstword.Itjustwontcomeout.Itfeelslikeitstucksomewhereandrefusedtocomeout.IknowthefeelinghereismyadviceJustSayit.Justthinkwhattheworstcouldhappen.Theywonttalkwithyou.Welltheyarenottalkingwithyounow.Itrulybelievethatonceyousaidfirstwordeverythingelsejustgetsflows.SokeepitsimpleHi,HeyorHel

3、lodowhatthebestpersoninyoudoesgatheralloftheenthusiasm,theenergy,putonabigsmileandsayHi.2.Skipthesmalltalk.Youknoweveryoneofusincludingmesometimesfacethisproblemeveryday.Youhavelimitedtimewiththatpersonyouwanttotalkyouwanttomakethistalkmemorable.Honestlyifwestuckintherutofhi,Hello,Howareyou?,whatsgo

4、ingon?,Nothingmuch,Sabbadiya!.Ifyoudothisyouwillfaittogiveinitialjolttotheconversationthatcanmakeconversationmemorable.SoIurgeyoutoSkipthesmalltalkandaskthereallypersonalquestionanddontbeafraid.Trustmeyoullbesurprisedtoseehowmuchpeoplearewillingtoshareifyoujustask.Soaskanypersonalquestionregardinghi

5、s/herinterestingnameAnystorybehindthis?,howlonghe/shelivinginthiscitydoyourememberfirstdayyoulandedinthisbeautifulcityetcetc.Thereareenormouswaysofaskingpersonalquestionwhichpeoplewontbitetoanswertrustmeonthat!.3.FindtheMeToos:Whenyoumeetthepersonforthefirsttimemakeaneffortstofindthethingswhichyouan

6、dthatpersonisincommonsothatyoucanbuildtheconversationfromthatpoint.Whenyoustartconversationfromthatpointthenmoveoutwardsfromthereyoullfindallofthesuddenthatconversationbecomelotmoreeasier.Thatisbecausebothofyouonthesamesideofgodknowssomethingwhichcommontobothyou.Thatsthepowerfulthing!.4.Payauniqueco

7、mplement.Ireadsomewherethatpeoplewillforgetwhatyoudo,theyforgetwhatyousaid,buttheyneverforgethowyoumadethemfeelhowyoutreatedthem.Sobegenerousgetyourdaamegooutsometimesgivesomeoneagenuinecomplement.Butbecautiousthatcomplementshouldbegenuineuniquetothepersonanditmostlyneverbeunheardoff.Letmegiveyouane

8、xample,coupleofyearsbackwhenIwasathardrockcafinpunethereImetagorgeousgirl.Turnsoutsheisamodel.HearingthatIlookedatherandsaidWow!YouarebeautifultomysurprizetherewasnoreactiononherfaceIthinktomyselfHow?.ThatswhenIrealizedsheisimmunetothewordbeautiful.Becauseshemightheared1000oftimestillnow.Sotryandcon

9、structacomplementthatisuniqueandgenuinecomplementdontlieplease.Peoplecansensethat.5.AskforanopinionWeallhaveanopinionweallwantthemtobeheardEverybodywantsavalidation.Sogoaheadandaskforanopinion.Thereyouhaveopenatwowaystreet,Thatswhentherealcommunicationbeginsyoullbesurprisedtoseehowmuchyoucanpickupfr

10、omthepersonjustbyaskingthereopinionongenericthings.Hereisamistakesthatsomepeoplemakes.TheyaskyouropiniononreallydifficultthingsEg:Someoneasksyouropinionaboutriseinaoilpricesandtheirimpactontheinflation.Itfeelslikeawkwardtoanswerthatifyoudontknowthesubjectmatteratall,isntit?Sojustasksomethingsimplean

11、dkeepitgenericlikeHowdoyoulikeacoffee?,Whenthelasttimeyouwatchedamovie?whensomeonegivesyoutheiropinionbesuretoLISTEN.6.BepresentImagineyouarepouringyourhearttosomeoneandhe/shejustbusyontheirphonechattingifyouaskfortheirattentionyougetaresponseIcanmultitask.Sowhensomeonetriestocommunicatewithyoujustb

12、einthatcommunicationwholeheartedly.AndmyfavouratepartMakeaneyecontact.Trustmeeyecontactiswhereallthemagichappens.Whenyoumakeaneyecontactyoucanfeeltheconversation.Letmeboostupyourmotivationwhiletalkingwhenyoulookintheireyes9outof10timestheywillnotlookaway.7.Name,Places,AnimalThings.Youallcameontoacon

13、versationwhereyoumettheperson,aftersometimeyoumetagainandyouforgotthenameoftheperson.Isntthatawkward,Iftheyplaythegamewithyoutellmemyname?.Sorememberthelittledetailsofthepeopleyoumetoryoutalkedwithmaybetheplacestheybeento,theplacestheywanttogo,thethingstheylike,thethingstheyhatewhateverthereis.Wheny

14、ouremembersuchthingsyoucanautomaticallybecomeinvestorintheirwellbeing.Sotheyfellresponsibletoyoutokeepthatconversationgoing.Thatsit.7amazingwaysthatyoucanmakeconversationwithalmostanyone.Trustmeeverypersonisareallygoodbooktoreadtoortohaveaconversationwith.考试中的题目是：Fivewaystomakeconversationwithanyone

15、选项是：A.bepresentB.justsayitC.askforanopinionD.name,places,thingsE.findthemetoos7WaystobreaktheIcemakeAConversationWithAnyone1.ThefirstwordfloodGates-MyadviceJustsayit.SupposeyouareintheroomwithsomeoneyoudontknowyoulookacrosstheroomandyouseeastrangerandsomethingwithinyousaysthatIwanttotalkwiththispers

16、onyouknowsomethingthatmostlyhappenswithallofus,YouwantedtosaysomethingtheFirstword.Itjustwontcomeout.Itfeelslikeitstucksomewhereandrefusedtocomeout.IknowthefeelinghereismyadviceJustSayit.Justthinkwhattheworstcouldhappen.Theywonttalkwithyou.Welltheyarenottalkingwithyounow.Itrulybelievethatonceyousaid

17、firstwordeverythingelsejustgetsflows.SokeepitsimpleHi,HeyorHellodowhatthebestpersoninyoudoesgatheralloftheenthusiasm,theenergy,putonabigsmileandsayHi.2.Skipthesmalltalk.Youknoweveryoneofusincludingmesometimesfacethisproblemeveryday.Youhavelimitedtimewiththatpersonyouwanttotalkyouwanttomakethistalkme

18、morable.Honestlyifwestuckintherutofhi,Hello,Howareyou?,whatsgoingon?,Nothingmuch,Sabbadiya!.Ifyoudothisyouwillfaittogiveinitialjolttotheconversationthatcanmakeconversationmemorable.SoIurgeyoutoSkipthesmalltalkandaskthereallypersonalquestionanddontbeafraid.Trustmeyoullbesurprisedtoseehowmuchpeopleare

19、willingtoshareifyoujustask.Soaskanypersonalquestionregardinghis/herinterestingnameAnystorybehindthis?,howlonghe/shelivinginthiscitydoyourememberfirstdayyoulandedinthisbeautifulcityetcetc.Thereareenormouswaysofaskingpersonalquestionwhichpeoplewontbitetoanswertrustmeonthat!.3.FindtheMeToos:Whenyoumeet

20、thepersonforthefirsttimemakeaneffortstofindthethingswhichyouandthatpersonisincommonsothatyoucanbuildtheconversationfromthatpoint.Whenyoustartconversationfromthatpointthenmoveoutwardsfromthereyoullfindallofthesuddenthatconversationbecomelotmoreeasier.Thatisbecausebothofyouonthesamesideofgodknowssomet

21、hingwhichcommontobothyou.Thatsthepowerfulthing!.4.Payauniquecomplement.Ireadsomewherethatpeoplewillforgetwhatyoudo,theyforgetwhatyousaid,buttheyneverforgethowyoumadethemfeelhowyoutreatedthem.Sobegenerousgetyourdaamegooutsometimesgivesomeoneagenuinecomplement.Butbecautiousthatcomplementshouldbegenuin

22、euniquetothepersonanditmostlyneverbeunheardoff.Letmegiveyouanexample,coupleofyearsbackwhenIwasathardrockcafinpunethereImetagorgeousgirl.Turnsoutsheisamodel.HearingthatIlookedatherandsaidWow!YouarebeautifultomysurprizetherewasnoreactiononherfaceIthinktomyselfHow?.ThatswhenIrealizedsheisimmunetothewor

23、dbeautiful.Becauseshemightheared1000oftimestillnow.Sotryandconstructacomplementthatisuniqueandgenuinecomplementdontlieplease.Peoplecansensethat.5.AskforanopinionWeallhaveanopinionweallwantthemtobeheardEverybodywantsavalidation.Sogoaheadandaskforanopinion.Thereyouhaveopenatwowaystreet,Thatswhentherea

24、lcommunicationbeginsyoullbesurprisedtoseehowmuchyoucanpickupfromthepersonjustbyaskingthereopinionongenericthings.Hereisamistakesthatsomepeoplemakes.TheyaskyouropiniononreallydifficultthingsEg:Someoneasksyouropinionaboutriseinaoilpricesandtheirimpactontheinflation.Itfeelslikeawkwardtoanswerthatifyoud

25、ontknowthesubjectmatteratall,isntit?SojustasksomethingsimpleandkeepitgenericlikeHowdoyoulikeacoffee?,Whenthelasttimeyouwatchedamovie?whensomeonegivesyoutheiropinionbesuretoLISTEN.6.BepresentImagineyouarepouringyourhearttosomeoneandhe/shejustbusyontheirphonechattingifyouaskfortheirattentionyougetares

26、ponseIcanmultitask.Sowhensomeonetriestocommunicatewithyoujustbeinthatcommunicationwholeheartedly.AndmyfavouratepartMakeaneyecontact.Trustmeeyecontactiswhereallthemagichappens.Whenyoumakeaneyecontactyoucanfeeltheconversation.Letmeboostupyourmotivationwhiletalkingwhenyoulookintheireyes9outof10timesthe

27、ywillnotlookaway.7.Name,Places,AnimalThings.Youallcameontoaconversationwhereyoumettheperson,aftersometimeyoumetagainandyouforgotthenameoftheperson.Isntthatawkward,Iftheyplaythegamewithyoutellmemyname?.Sorememberthelittledetailsofthepeopleyoumetoryoutalkedwithmaybetheplacestheybeento,theplacestheywan

28、ttogo,thethingstheylike,thethingstheyhatewhateverthereis.Whenyouremembersuchthingsyoucanautomaticallybecomeinvestorintheirwellbeing.Sotheyfellresponsibletoyoutokeepthatconversationgoing.Thatsit.7amazingwaysthatyoucanmakeconversationwithalmostanyone.Trustmeeverypersonisareallygoodbooktoreadtoortohaveaconversationwith.考试中的题目是：Fivewaystomakeconversationwithanyone选项是：A.bepresentB.justsayitC.askforanopinionD.name,places,thingsE.findthemetoosF.payauniquecomplimentG.skipthesmalltalkF.payauniquecomplimentG.skipthesmalltalk