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1、赞美母爱的散文:母爱的真理赞美母爱的散文:母爱的真理Timeisrunningoutformyfriend.Whilewearesittingatlunchshecasuallymentionssheandherhusbandarethinkingofstartingafamily.Weretakingasurvey,shesays,half-joking.DoyouthinkIshouldhaveababy?光阴任苒，朋友已经老大不小了。我们坐在一起吃饭的时候，她漫不经心地提到她和她的丈夫正考虑要小孩。我们正在做一项调查，她半开玩笑地讲。你觉得我应该要个小孩吗?Itwillchangeyou

2、rlife,Isay,carefullykeepingmytoneneutral.Iknow,shesays,nomoresleepinginonweekends,nomorespontaneousholidays.他将改变你的生活。我小心翼翼地讲道，尽量使语气保持客观。这我知道。她答道，周末睡不成懒觉，再也不能随心所欲休假了ButthatsnotwhatImeanatall.Ilookatmyfriend,tryingtodecidewhattotellher.Iwanthertoknowwhatshewillneverlearninchildbirthclasses.Iwanttotell

3、herthatthephysicalwoundsofchildbearingwillheal,butbecomingamotherwillleaveherwithanemotionalwoundsorawthatshewillbevulnerableforever.但我讲的绝非这些。我凝视着朋友，试图整理一下本人的思绪。我想让她知道她永远不可能在分娩课上学到的东西。我想让她知道：分娩的有形伤疤能够愈合，但是做母亲的情感伤痕却永远如新，她会因而变得特别脆弱。Iconsiderwarningherthatshewillneveragainreadanewspaperwithoutthinking:

4、WhatifthathadbeenMYchild?Thateveryplanecrash,everyhousefirewillhaunther.Thatwhensheseespicturesofstarvingchildren,shewillwonderifanythingcouldbeworsethanwatchingyourchilddie.Ilookathercarefullymanicurednailsandstylishsuitandthinkthatnomatterhowsophisticatedsheis,becomingamotherwillreducehertotheprim

5、itivelevelofabearprotectinghercub.我想告诫她：做了母亲后，每当她看报纸时就会情不自禁地联想：假如那件事情发生在我的孩子身上将会如何啊!每一次飞机失事、每一场住宅火灾都会让她提心吊胆。看到那些忍饥受饿的孩子们的照片时，她会思考：世界上还有什么比眼睁睁地看着本人的孩子饿死更惨的事情呢?我打量着她精修细剪的指甲和时髦前卫的衣服，心里想到：不管她打扮多么讲究，做了母亲后，她会变得像护崽的母熊那样原始而不修边幅。IfeelIshouldwarnherthatnomatterhowmanyyearsshehasinvestedinhercareer,shewillbepr

6、ofessionallyderailedbymotherhood.Shemightarrangeforchildcare,butonedayshewillbegoingintoanimportantbusinessmeeting,andshewillthinkherbabyssweetsmell.Shewillhavetouseeveryounceofdisciplinetokeepfromrunninghome,justtomakesureherchildisallright.我觉得本人应该提醒她，不管她在工作上投入了多少年，一旦做了母亲，工作就会脱离常规。她自然能够安排别人照顾孩子，但讲不

7、定哪天她要去参加一个非常重要的商务会议，却忍不住想起宝宝身上散发的甜甜乳香。她不得不拼命抑制本人，才不致于为了看看孩子能否安然无羔而中途回家。Iwantmyfriendtoknowthateverydecisionwillnolongerberoutine.Thatafive-year-oldboysdesiretogotothemensroomratherthanthewomensatarestaurantwillbecomeamajordilemma.Theissuesofindependenceandgenderidentitywillbeweighedagainsttheprospec

8、tthatachildmolestermaybelurkinginthelavatory.Howeverdecisiveshemaybeattheoffice,shewillsecond-guessherselfconstantlyasamother.我想告诉朋友，有了孩子后，她将再也不能根据惯例做出决定。在餐馆，5岁的儿子想进男厕而不愿进女厕将成为摆在她眼前的一大难题：她将在两个选择之间权衡一番：尊重孩子的独立和性别意识，还是让他进男厕所冒险被潜在的儿童性骚扰者损害?听凭她在办公室多么果断，作为母亲，她仍经常事后懊悔本人当时的决定。Lookingatmyattractivefriend,Iw

9、anttoassureherthateventuallyshewillshedtheaddedweightofpregnancy,butshewillneverfeelthesameaboutherself.Thatherownlife,nowsoimportant,willbeoflessvaluetoheronceshehasachild.Shewouldgiveitupinamomenttosaveheroffspring,butwillalsobegintohopeformoreyearsnottoaccomplishherowndreamsbuttowatchherchildrena

10、ccomplishtheirs.凝视着我的这位漂亮的朋友，我想让她明确地知道，她最终会恢复到怀孕前的体重，但是她对本人的感觉已然不同。她如今视为如此重要的生命将随着孩子的诞生而变得不那么珍贵。为了救本人的孩子，她时刻愿意献出本人的生命。但她也开场希望多活一些年头，不是为了实现本人的梦想，而是为了看着孩子们美梦成真。Iwanttodescribetomyfriendtheexhilarationofseeingyourchildlearntohitaball.Iwanttocaptureforherthebellylaughofababywhoistouchingthesoftfurofadog

11、forthefirsttime.Iwanthertotastethejoythatissorealithurts.我想向朋友形容本人看到孩子学会击球时的喜悦之情。我想让她留意宝宝第一次触摸狗的绒毛时的捧腹大笑。我想让她品尝快乐，尽管这快乐真实得令人心痛。Myfriendslookmakesmerealizethattearshaveformedinmyeyes.Youllneverregretit,Isayfinally.Then,squeezingmyfriendshand,Iofferaprayerforherandmeandallofthemeremortalwomenwhostumbl

12、etheirwayintothisholiestofcallings.朋友的表情让我意识到本人已经是热泪盈眶。你永远不会懊悔，我最后讲。然后紧紧地握住朋友的手，为她、为本人、也为每一位困难跋涉、准备响应母亲职业神圣的召唤的平凡女性献上本人的祷告赞美母爱的散文:母爱的真理Timeisrunningoutformyfriend.Whilewearesittingatlunchshecasuallymentionssheandherhusbandarethinkingofstartingafamily.Weretakingasurvey,shesays,half-joking.DoyouthinkIshouldhaveababy推荐度：