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1、选择成就你我 选择成就 Last month, while on an airplane to Chicago for a speaking engagement, I sat beside a beautiful young woman. We started talking and she told me she was a widow with six children. Our conversation soon turned into a coaching 1)session and she said her dream was to become a 2)motivational

2、speaker and to share her story. She is raising six young children successfully and doing so with a most positive attitude. She then told me a story of twin brothers. One was extremely successful and wealthy. When asked what motivated him to become so successful, he replied, “My father was an 3)alcoh

3、olic. I had no choice.” His brother couldnt 4)hold down a job and became an alcoholic, and when asked, “What caused you to become an alcoholic?” he replied, “My father was an alcoholic. I had no choice.” Theres a great message here. What do you really want? And what choices are you making? No one el

4、se can ever make your choices for you. Your choices are yours alone. If you want to make some positive changes in your life, you must create good choices. So often we dont even think about how many choices we make in a day. What time to get up, what to wear, and what to eat for breakfast are all cho

5、ices that we make without thinking too much about them. Do you choose to take care of your health and exercise regularly? Or do you choose not to take care of your health? Do you choose to enjoy your work every day, or do you choose not to enjoy your work? Do you choose to have a positive attitude e

6、very day, or do you choose not to be positive? Do you choose to speak kindly to others, or do you choose to say whatever you want and not consider others feelings? It is the minor, daily decisions we make that direct the kind of life well have. If you dont make conscious choices about your goals, th

7、en you will not reach them. Do you choose your friends? Do you surround yourself with people who are 5)caring and 6)supportive? Do your friends 7)build you up? Think about the friends you have and the choices youve made. How do you spend your free time? Do you consciously think about the choices you

8、 have? Or do you just watch television, or do what youve done for years instead of thinking about what choices you have? Most of us take our time when making major choices about our education, marriage, and careers. But what about the hundreds of choices we make in a day? Are you going to worry toda

9、y? Are you going to have patience today? Who are you going to spend time with today? If something happens at work, do you ask yourself, “What do I choose to do about this?” Look at your life. Look at the choices youve made. Throughout the day, ask yourself, “Do I have a choice about this? If so, wha

10、t choice do I want to make?” My daughter came to my house last week singing a very 8)catchy tune. It was called “Keep on the Sunny Side.” The lyrics were, “Keep on the sunny side of life, always on the sunny side. Keep on the sunny side of life. It will help us every day; it will brighten all the wa

11、y if we keep on the sunny side of life.” What side of life do you choose? As we control our choices, we control our lives. Throughout the day, think about every choice you make. Will I get angry over this? Will the traffic bother me this morning? What will I eat for lunch? Choices, choices, choices.

12、 Think about the twin brothers in the story I heard on the airplane, and the choices they made. And think about the choices youll make. Whether its a major choice or lots of little ones, the choice is always yours and no one elses. 上个月，在乘飞机去芝加哥演讲的途中，我坐在一位美丽的年轻女士旁边。我们起先闲聊，她告知我她是一个有六个小孩的寡妇。我们的闲聊不久便演化成

13、指导谈心，她说她的幻想是成为一位励志演说家，与人共享她的故事。她以最主动的看法胜利地抚养着六个小孩。然后，她告知我一个关于一对双胞胎兄弟的故事。其中一个特别胜利富有。当被问及是什么驱使他获得如此胜利时，他回答：“我父亲是一个酒鬼。我别无他选。”他的兄弟则失业了，也成了一个酒鬼。当别人问他：“是什么导致你变成一个酒鬼?”他回答：“我父亲是一个酒鬼。我别无他选。”这里头包含了一个重要的启示。你真正想要的是什么？你在做出怎样的选择？ 没有任何人能够帮你做出选择。你的选择是你一个人的事。 假如你想在生活中做出正面的变更，你必需创建出好的选择。许多时候，我们甚至不会去想一天之内做出了多少个选择。什么时候

14、起床，穿什么衣服，吃什么早餐，这些都是无需多想便做出的选择。你选择注意自己的健康并定期运动吗？或者你选择不注意自己的健康？你选择每天都享受自己的工作，或者选择不享受自己的工作？你选择每天都带着主动的看法生活，还是选择不主动？你选择友善地与别人交谈，还是选择口不择言，毫不顾及他人的感受？ 就是这些我们日常所做的一个个小选择确定了我们将过上一种怎样的生活。假如你不专心为达成目标而做出选择，那么你将无法实现目标。 你会选择挚友吗？你四周的人富有怜悯心并支持你吗？你的挚友助你主动上进吗？想想你所拥有的挚友，以及你所做出的选择。你如何度过空闲时间？你会始终思索自己拥有的选择吗？或者你只是看看电视，或者年

15、复一年做着同样的事情，而不会去思索你拥有的选择？ 我们大多数人会花时间去做有关教化、婚姻及职业生涯的选择。但是，那数百个我们在一天里所做的选择呢？你今日会担忧吗？你今日会有耐性吗？你今日准备与谁共度时间？假如工作上有什么事情发生，你会记得问问自己：“我该选择做什么来处理这件事情？” 看看自己的生活。看看自己所做的选择。一成天里，问问自己：“这件事情我有所选择吗？假如有，我想要做什么样的选择？” 上周，我女儿回到家里，哼唱着一段琅琅上口的歌曲，歌名叫让生活充溢阳光。歌词是这样的：“让生活充溢阳光，始终充溢阳光。让生活充溢阳光。这样我们每天都会有所得益；假如让生活充溢阳光，它会始终照射我们。”你选择生活的哪一面呢？我们掌控了选择，我们也就掌控了自己的生活。 一成天里，想一想你所做的每一个选择。我会对此生气吗？今日早上的交通状况困扰我了吗？我中午吃什么好呢？选择，选择，再选择。 想一想我在飞机上听到的这个故事里的双胞胎兄弟，以及他们所做的选择。再想一想你将要做的选择。不管是一个重大选择还是许很多多的小选择，它们是仅属于你的选择，而非他人的。