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1、Chinese EtiquetteChina is a country that has long been known for its ceremonies and etiquette through the ages. However, it can be something of a culture shock when it comes to the differences between the social niceties between China and the western world. The following is an introduction to the da

2、ily manners and courtesies of social life in China. Greetings: In different countries, people have different ways of greetings. Before your China trip, do you want to learn something practical about Chinese peoples greeting etiquette? In this section, you can get some knowledge of how Chinese people

3、 greet with each other. Hope it helps. Many western countries accept hugs and kisses as a popular form of greeting although a handshake is still the formal way of greeting people. In China, a handshake or a simple and kind salutation is common. Form of Address: A form of address is to some extent a

4、reflection of social climate. In China, various forms of address are used according to circumstances. Choosing the appropriate and correct form shows your wit and high respect to others. Generally, for Chinese people it should be in accord with convention and care much about the personal favor of th

5、e people being addressed. There are four main categories: Job Title: You can call someone directly by his job title or put it before his surname or full name. This is often used in the workplace and on more formal occasions:Chinese PinyinChineseThe same meaning in EnglishHu Zhu Xi胡主席President HuZhan

6、g Jing Li张经理Manager ZhangLiu Zhu Ren刘主任Director Liu To address based on professional qualifications, which expresses respect to those being addressed:Chinese PinyinChineseThe same meaning in EnglishLi Jiao Shou李教授Professor LiWang Lu Shi王律师Lawyer WangZhao Gong Cheng Shi赵工程师Engineer Zhao An address ba

7、sed on educational qualifications is helpful to emphasize the academic authority of the people being addressed:Chinese PinyinChineseThe same meaning in EnglishYang Bo Shi杨博士Dr. YangGao Shuo Shi高硕士Master GaoMa Xue Shi马学士Bachelor Ma To address based on professions:Chinese PinyinChineseThe same meaning

8、 in EnglishWang Lao Shi王老师Teacher WangZhang Yi Sheng张医生Docotor ZhangLiu Jing Guan刘警官Officer Liu Generally, you can call others by their family name or full name by putting the Mr. or Ms. in front. This is the general address most widely used in company, hotels, stores, restaurants, karaoke, bars and

9、 other places. You can use a persons full name or family name when addressing acquaintances, good friends and colleagues, or only the surname proceeded by an informal title which indicates his age:Chinese PinyinChineseMeaning in EnglishNoteLao Li老李Elder LiA person older than yourselfXiao Wang小王Young

10、er WangA person younger than yourself Phatic Communion A smile, good eye contact and politeness are expressions of sincerity. These are the beginning of communication. Just like westerners, the Chinese usually pass the time of day with one another as a precursor to getting to the point of a conversa

11、tion or presentation. Different conditions require different styles in which conversational greetings may be exchanged. When you meet someone for the first time, the most commonly-used words are:Chinese PinyinChineseThe same meaning in EnglishNi Hao你好Hello/HiHen Gao Xing Ren Shi Ni很高兴认识你Glad to see

12、you. / Nice to meet you.Xing Hui (more formal )幸会How do you do? For greeting acquaintances, the words will be more informal and friendly like the following:Chinese PinyinChineseMeaning in EnglishHao Jiu Bu Jian好久不见Long time no see!Ni Qi Se Bu Cuo你气色不错You look very well today!Chi Le Ma吃了吗Have you had

13、 your meal?Mang Shen Me Ne忙什么呢？What are you busying doing these days?Zui Jin Ru He最近如何？How are you doing recently?Shen Ti Zen Me Yang身体怎么样？How are you feeling? / How are you?Jia Ren Dou Hao Ba家人都好吧？How is your family?Qu Naer去那儿啊？Where are you going?Shang Ban Qu Ma上班去吗？You are going to work?Jin Tian

14、Feng Hen Da今天风很大The wind is so strong today.Ni Nu Er Zhen Ke Ai您女儿真可爱Your daughter is so lovely! This phatic communion is a salutation without expectation of a response, the question being rhetorical. However, it should be compact, friendly and respectful. It is improper to ask about the personal af

15、fairs of other people, for delving into anothers privacy is considered to be discourteous. Remember always to be active, passionate, natural and attentive when greeting others.Make Introductions: In this section, you can learn some Chinese about how to introduce yourself to others and some tips of s

16、elf-introduction. An introduction is the first step to establish an interpersonal relationship. A successful introduction makes the people being introduced feel closer and creates a good first impression. Self-introductionWith regard to introducing yourself there is little difference between China a

17、nd elsewhere. It is considered polite to give your full name, job positions and the place you work for, especially on more formal occasions. Only your full name with a simple greeting is enough on informal occasions:Chinese PinyinChineseThe same meaning in EnglishNi Hao, Wo Jiao.你好, 我叫.Hello/Hi, Im.

18、Ni Hao, Wo Shi.你好, 我是.Ni Hao, Wo De Ming Zi Shi.你好, 我的名字是.Hello/Hi, My name is. Being introduced If someone is making the introductions, to introduce your self is considered disrespectful. So when it is your turn to be introduced, stand up, smile and look at the people also being introduced with eas

19、e. After being introduced, you can shake hands with each other and give mutual greetings, sometimes with an exchange of calling cards. Introduce to others In China, there are many strict conventional rules on introduction to others: a. The junior should be introduced to the senior first; b. The male

20、 should be introduced to the female first;c. The inferior should be introduced to the superior first;d. The host should be introduced to the guest first. These ways of introduction is to show high respect to the senior, the female, the superior and the guest. However, if you are in a generally more

21、informal occasion, the introduction to others can be less ceremonious.Handshaking: Its said that the comity of handshaking originated in remote antiquity. At that time, human beings lived on hunting. If they happened to meet a stranger, they would throw their hunting tools aside and laid open the ha

22、nds to show the person. With the change of eras, this action has become etiquette in peoples life.Handshaking, is a kind of silent language, which is especially more important in China, although it is a popularly used form of greeting in many countries worldwide. It is the common propriety on most s

23、ocial occasions as an expression of courtesy and greeting when people meet or say goodbye to each other. Besides, handshaking is also a way to express congratulations, thanks and encouragement to others. Generally, you can make a simple address or beckon and then shake hands with each other, simulta

24、neously with exchange of greetings. As for the question as to who should offer his hand first, there are some basic principles you should follow. Generally speaking, the elder, the senior, the teacher (compared with the students), the female, the married (compared with the unmarried), the superior s

25、hould reach out their hands first. If you have to shake hands with more than one person, you should shake hands in succession with the senior and superior to the junior and inferior, from the nearest to the furthest.Specially, when the host meets the guest, the host should shake hands first to show

26、his welcome; however, when they say goodbye with each other, it is the guest who should offer his hand first.There are also some exceptions. If someone, no matter whether he is superior or not, offers his hand before you, it is courteous to give an unreserved response.Then how to shake hands with ot

27、hers? Generally, you should pay much attention to the time and strength. It is inappropriate to shake hands too long or too short, three to five seconds is the best, not exceed to 30 seconds at most. Handshaking should be simple and light, without over exertion.There are also some things that are un

28、acceptable when shaking hands:a. Shake hands absent-mindedly.b. Shake hands with left hand. c. Shake hands while wearing a hat, gloves or sunglasses. d. Shake hands crossways. e. Having your other hand in your pocket. f. Shake hands while seated unless disabled. g. Refuse to shake hands with others.

29、 Table Manners: Like the people in western countries, the Chinese are particular about the table manners. Through this section, you will have an acquaintance with how to use chopsticks correctly and other manners about dining. A multitude of etiquette considerations occur also when dinning in China.

30、 There are some special differences from manners in western countries. a. A round dining table is more popular in China than a rectangular or square one. As many people who can be seated comfortably around it conveniently face one another. The guest of honor is always seated to the right of the host

31、; the next in line will sit on his left. Guests should be seated after the hosts invitation, and it is discourteous to seat guests at the place where the dishes are served. b. Dinning may only begin once the host and all his guests are seated. The host should actively take care of all his guests, in

32、viting them to enjoy their meal.Our guests enjoy delicious Chinese food c. On a typical Chinese dinning table there are always a cup, a bowl on a small dish, together with the chopsticks and table spoons. Dishes are always presented in the center of the table. d. Apart from soup, all dishes should b

33、e eaten with chopsticks. The Chinese are particular about the use of chopsticks. There are many no-nos such as twiddling with chopsticks, licking chopsticks, or using them to stir up the food, gesture with them or point them at others. Never stick chopsticks in the center of rice, as this is the way

34、 to sacrifice and is therefore considered to be inauspicious. e. Keep your dining pace accorded with other people. Never smoke when dining. f. A formal Chinese dinning is always accompanied by tea, beer or distilled spirit. The one who sit closest to the teapot or wine bottle should pour them for ot

35、hers from the senior and superior to the junior and inferior. And when other people fill your cup or glass, you should express your thanks. Guests can not pour tea or wine themselves. g. A toast to others is a characteristic Chinese dinning. When all people are seated and all cups are filled, the ho

36、st should toast others first, together with some simple prologueCheers when dining together in China to let the dinning start. During the dining after the seniors toast, you can toast anyone from superior to inferior at their convenience. When someone toasts you, you should immediately stop eating a

37、nd drinking to accept and toast in response. If you are far from someone you want to toast, then you can use your cup or glass to rap on the table to attract attention rather than raise your voice. However, it is impolite to urge others to drink. h. Conventionally, if you are invited to a formal ban

38、quet, all the dishes should not be eaten up completely, or you will give the host the impression that he has not provided a good banquets and the food was insufficient. After dining, guests should leave once the host has left the table.Family Visiting: Maybe, its the first time that you have come to

39、 China and you havent called at any Chinese family before. Here, you can get some very practical tips of a Chinese family visiting. Especially, Chinese people are very particular about the amenity of courtesy demands reciprocity. In China, giving a gift often happens. This is a very important etique

40、tte in communicationVisit a Chinese FamilyChinese people are hospitable. If you are invited by or wish to pay a visit to a Chinese family, there are some formalities that you should follow: a. Make an appointment in advance, and then you should always be punctual for the appointment.b. Choose an app

41、ropriate time to have the family visiting, avoid visiting at others dining or resting time. The best time is the period after noon or supper.c. Bring some gifts as a polite gesture.d. Hand your hat, overcoat, raingear, etc.to the host for placement. e. Greet to all people in the family no matter whe

42、ther they are acquaintances or not.f. Be seated only when invited to do by your host.g. Usually you will be offered tea, beverage, cigarette, fruits, candies socks and dim-sum. Just express your thankfulness then you can help yourself to them.h. Never poke fun about anything in the hosts family.i. G

43、enerally do not stay more than an hour unless being asked by the host to stay longer.j. Always express your thanks to the host when you leave.By the way, do you feel puzzled when you want to buy some gifts for your Chinese friends? Hope you will have a clear idea after reading the following words:Ta

44、ke a Photo with the HostChinese people set store by gift giving. As we say in English, it is the thought that counts. Giving a gift to Chinese people should be appropriate for the condition or occasion. If you pay a visit to a Chinese family, it is smart to bring gift for the hostess like bouquet, c

45、osmetic, or scarves. Toys, candies, books are good for the children if they have them. If you attend a wedding party, the artistic adornment, bouquet, or some practical items are the best choice. During the traditional Chinese festivals, you can bring wines, cigarettes, tea, candies, fruits, or some

46、 of your local products. However, there are some tips for you to note, which is considered to be unpropitious: a. Clocks should never be presented as gift to others, especially to elders.b. Pears can not be sent to couples.c. People who are unwell may not be given medicine as gift.d. Intimate items

47、of clothing may not be gifts for friends of the opposite sex.Tips:1. If you choose to travel to Xian with TravelChinaGuide, we could arrange a Chinese family visit for you! Typical localfamily will be chosen to hold the activity in which you can see the ture daily life of common Chinese people.2. If you are interested in Chinese food, you can join a Chinese food cooking class during the family visit.第 16 页