聪明人的六个表现.docx

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1、You may not be as smart as you think you are6大细节证明你其实没那么聪慧Stop for a moment and ask yourself if there was ever a time (or times) youve arrogantly said or thought: Im too smart for this. If youre someone who always believed that youre Mr. Smarty Pants, you may want to take a step back and contemplate

2、. That kind of thinking can work against you in life and in work.停下来扪心自问：你有没有傲岸地自认为“太聪慧” ？假如你始终自恃聪慧，或许该认真反 省了。这种心态对生活和工作特别不利。So while its difficult to face the truth, lets entertain the possibility that you may not be as smart as you think you are. Read on and check if you have the following signs:面

3、对现实并不简单一一为什么说你没有自认为的那样聪慧？或许以下就是缘由。请往下读, 看看你是否也有这些表现吧：1. Youre more of a talker than a listener你爱倾诉，不擅倾听And that/s putting it nicely.一语点中要害。You like the sound of your own voice, with or without you knowing it. People dont come to you to talk about their problems or even celebrate their successes beca

4、use you always end up talking about your own problems and successes.不管是否意识到，你都喜爱表达自己。跟你在一起，别人根本就无法倾诉苦恼或庆贺胜利, 由于你始终在滔滔不绝谈论自己的苦恼或胜利。If this sounds like you, consciously decide to listen and focus on the what the person is saying the next time youre in a conversation with someone. Dont try to upstage t

5、hem, just listen.假如你是这种人，那么下次跟人交谈时，请下意识学着倾听、去关注别人在讲什么吧。不要 总是抢着说话，请倾听！2. You show off only the good stuff and make some up你只炫耀好的一面，还会编造一些You hide your true personality. You fake it. Big time. While its good to always be at your best when meeting important people, you take it to a whole other level: Y

6、ou lie so that people have a better impression of you.你隐蔽自己的真实性格，经常戴着面具。虽然约见重要人物时，呈现自己最好的一面也无可 厚非，但你会因此得寸进尺：为了给人留下好印象，你不停撒谎。Smart people value truth and know better than to hide for the sake of looking good. Showing only your good side and adding some special effects will tire you in the long run.聪慧

7、的人看重真实，不会为了看上去优秀而伪装自己。炫耀自己好的一面并加以粉饰，长此 以往只会让你疲乏不堪。3. You/re always in the middle of a storm你总处在风暴中心You always find yourself in the middle of conflict. And when you think back on it, you either caused that conflict or you added fuel to the flames.你总陷入冲突焦点。认真回想，你发觉：要么是你引发了冲突，要么是你煽了风点了火。Smart people, o

8、n the other hand, either dont get involved when theres nothing they can do or do their best to help end the conflict. Try to do the same.相反，假如无济于事，聪慧的人会避开牵扯进去；假如可以关心，他们会尽量平静冲突。请 学着点吧。4. You discourage people instead of lifting them up你不鼓舞别人，反倒打击别人You discourage people, not just by saying so outright

9、 but also by not giving them the time of day. In a way, youre telling them that their ideas or their problems are not worth your time or your (perceived) intelligence.你说话露骨，不给人留余地；你总打击别人。你说别人的想法或问题太弱智，根本不值得你 动脑筋。Smart people help encourage others by actually paying attention. They listen (note the f

10、irst sign) and share what they know. If big shots like Richard Branson and Adm. William McRaven, commander in the U.S. special forces, can take the time to answer letters from kids, you can spend a few minutes encouraging people.聪慧的人会实实在在关怀鼓舞别人。他们倾听（见第1条）并共享自己的心得。像理查德- 布兰森、美国特种部队指挥官威廉麦克纳文这样的大人物都还费心回

11、信给小伴侣，你为何 不能花几分钟鼓舞他人呢？5. You prefer lowbrow entertainment你喜爱低俗消遣You dont challenge yourself with difficult subjects and are content to stick to entertaining yet hardly thought-provoking reading material. You also spend hours watching bad reality TV.你宁愿读那些毫无意义的东西，也不愿尝试了解稍有深度的领域。你老追着看糟糕透顶的电 视真人秀。Real

12、smart people thrive on reading books and watching films that spark their creativity and make them think and question. A few hours of intellectual reading could open up your horizons so give it a shot. You can start by listening to audiobooks if the thought of reading thick books is daunting to you.真

13、正聪慧的人选择能激发制造力、发人深省的书籍或电影。阅读有深度的书籍可以开阔眼界, 请尝试一下吧！假如一想到大部头书籍就头疼，你可以先听听有声书。6. You/re always so busy你总是忙劳碌碌Your work life consists of you running around like a headless chicken. There always seems to be a problem that takes up most of your work day. You also find yourself doing all the work, all the tim

14、e.你工作起来总像只没头苍蝇似的处处瞎忙。似乎每天都有费神耗时的烂摊子要整理，你无时 无刻不在应付杂七杂八的任务。Learn how to delegate and ask for help. It/s a little arrogant of you to think that you can do everything for everyone. Make it a point to rest and spend time on things that matter in life, not just work.学着安排任务、寻求关心吧。觉得自己能单枪匹马包揽全部活计？太高估自己了！别只忙

15、于 工作，也要会休息，花时间做点真正有意义的事情。You may have been praised a lot when you were a child, a teen, or a college student because of your high grades and other academic achievements. That/s great. Ego boosts now and then are healthy and needed. But strive for more than just accolades.当你还是个孩子或同学时，由于考了高分或学业喜人，经常受人赞扬，的确很不错。现在自 我膨胀了，渴望更大了，但决不能仅仅流连于夸赞之辞啊。If you truly want to be smart but find yourself guilty of the signs above, nows the chance to make a change. Be a smarter, better version of you.