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1、西方礼仪(Western Manners)Meetiing aand GGreetting PeoppleIn Puublicc PlaacesIntrooducttionSpeciial OOccassionssInvittatioonWith Straangerrs annd FrrienddsIn thhe HoomePersoonal Habiits aand AAppeaarancceTablee MannnerssSome Poinnts ffor MMenIn Scchooll西方礼仪精选相关链链接:西方风情情 httpp:/ 商务礼俗俗 httpp:/ Somee Commmo

2、n Mannners in tthe WWest编辑 整理理It iss a ggreatt hellp foor thhe peersonn whoo is learrningg a fforeiign llanguuage to kknow somee cusstomss andd mannnerss forr thee peoople who speaaks iit, bbecauuse tthe llanguuage is vvery clossely assoociatted wwith themm. I willl telll yoou soome ccommoon weester

3、rn maannerrs.1. Meeetinng annd Grreetiing PPeoplle1) GrreetiingThe ssimpllest thinng too sayy is Goood moorninng, Goood affternnoon orr goood eeveniing. Thiis grreetiing iis giiven to oone wwhom you knoww onlly sllighttly, or tto anny onne yoou arre paassinng quuicklly. How are you is usuaally usedd

4、 wheen yoou arre noot inn succh a hurrry. NNo annswerr is expeectedd othher tthan Fiine, thannk yoou. helllo is tthe ccommoonestt forrm off greeetinng beetweeen goood ffriennds.2) Whhen aa Mann Raiises His HatIf yoou arre weearinng a hat whicch caan bee takken bbold of eeasilly, iit iss cusstomaary

5、tto raaise it sslighhtly off yourr heaad whhen yyou ggreett a ggirl or aa womman.3) Whhen tto Shhake HanddsIt iss cusstomaary tto shhake handds whhen yyou ffirstt meeet soomeonne. AAnd uusuallly ffriennds sshakee hannds wwhen theyy meeet affter not haviing sseen eachh othher ffor ssome timee. Hoowev

6、eer itt is not neceessarry too shaake hhandss.4) Usse thhe peersonns NNameIt iss alwways goodd forrm too usee thee namme off thee perrson you are greeetingg. Yoou miight say, Goood MMorniing, Mr. Monccriefff oor Helllo, FFrankklin., AA perrsons suurnamme shhouldd be usedd unlless he iis goood ffrien

7、nd orr schhool-matee.2. Inntrodductiion1) Hoow too Inttroduuce PPeoplleIn inntrodducinng twwo peeoplee, thhe geeneraal ruule iis: IIntrooducee othher ppeoplle too thee perrson you wishh to honoor. TThe oold aare hhonorred iin thhe Weest aas inn Chiina. Womeen haave bbeen honoouredd in the Westt sinn

8、ce tthe ddays of kknighhthoood(骑士士时代）.2) Riisingg at IntrroducctionnA mann alwways risee forr an intrroducctionn, exxceptt thaat itt is someetimees alll riight for an eelderrly mman tto reemainn seaated whenn a yyoungg mann is intrroducced tto hiim. TThe hhosteess aalwayys riises for an iintrooductt

9、ion.3) Inntrodducinng YoourseelfIf yoou waant tto meeet ssomeoone, it iis beetterr to ask a frriendd whoo knoow hiim too inttroduuce yyou. But someetimees att a mmeetiing oor gaatherring it iis alll riight to iintrooducee youursellf too a ffelloow-sttudennt, oor too onee of the samee sexx andd possi

10、tioon.3. Innvitaationn1) Yoou Muust RReplyy to an IInvittatioonForeeign custtom iis muuch mmore striict tthan Chinnese custtom iin thhe maatterr of repllyingg to inviitatiions. Wheen yoou reeceivve ann invvitattion you shouuld aansweer itt immmediaatelyy, saayingg deffinittely whetther you are ablee

11、 to acceept iit orr nott.2) Wrritteen orr Verrbal RepllyIf thhe innvitaationn is giveen byy worrd off mouuth, in cconveersattion or aat a channce mmeetiing, you shouuld aansweer att oncce whhetheer yoou caan coome oor noot. IIf yoou caannott givve ann ansswer at tthat timee, yoou maay saay, May I le

12、et yoou knnow tthis evenning? Orr somme suuch wwordss.4. Inn thee Homme1) Thhe Riight Timee to ArriiveWhen inviited to llunchheon, dinnner, or suppper, it iis veery iimpollite to aarrivve laate, as iit iss usuuallyy plaannedd to havee thee meaal att thee exaact hhour giveen inn thee invvitattion.2)

13、Inn arrrivallWhen you arriive, the hosttess or ssome membber oof thhe faamilyy willl prrobabbly mmeet you at tthe ddoor and takee youur cooat aand hhat. In tthe wwinteer tiime yyou sshoulld drress moree ligghtlyy thaan ussuallly, aas yoou maay exxpectt thee roooms tto bee warrmer thann in mostt Chii

14、nesee hommes.3) Inn a ffew mminuttes tthe hhosteess wwill ask her guessts tto coome iin too dinnner. Shee mayy or may not ask eachh genntlemman tto taake aa laddy inn. Iff shee doees, tthe llady willl takke thhe geentleemans arrm ass theey waalk iinto the dinnning roomm. Iff shee doees noot, tthe ll

15、adiees wiill ggo inn firrst, folllowedd by the genttlemeen. TThe hhosteess wwill eithher ppointt outt theeir sseatss to the guessts aas thhey ccome in oor haave a pllace cardd at eachh plaace wwith the guessts nname on iit.4) Hoow Loong tto SttayAfterr thee meaal iss oveer itt is not poliite tto lee

16、ave for at lleastt hallf ann houur, llest you seemm to havee comme onnly ffor tthe mmeal. An evenning dinnner iinvittatioon ussuallly immpliees thhat yyou sstay for the wholle evveninng. TThe hhosteess ooftenn plaans ssome afteer-diinnerr enttertaainmeent.5) Whhat tto Saay onn LeaavinggWhen leavving

17、 any kindd of a paarty, a gguestt alwways exprressees hiis appprecciatiion tto thhe hoostesss. SSome suchh worrds aas thhese are apprropriiate. Thhank you so mmuch. Ivve haad a deliight evenning.5. Taable Mannners1) Ass sooon ass thee hosstesss piccks uup heer naapkinn(餐巾）, pickk youurs uup annd laa

18、y itt on yourr lapp. Soometiimes a rooll oof brread is wwrappped iin itt; iff so, tokke itt ourr andd putt it on yyour sidee plaate.2) Thhe Sooup CCoursseDinneer ussuallly beeginss witth sooup. The larggest spooon att youur pllace is tthe ssoup spooon. IIt wiill bbe beesidee youur pllate at tthe rri

19、ghtt-hannd siide.3) Thhe Fiish CCoursseIf thhere is aa fissh cooursee, itt willl prrobabbly ffolloow thhe sooup. Therre maay bee a sspeciial ffork for the fishh, orr it may be ssimillar tto thhe meeat ffork. Oftten iit iss smaallerr.4) Thhe Meeat CCoursseThe mmain Courrse iis ussuallly seervedd by t

20、he hostt himmselff, esspeciiallyy if it iis a fowll(鸡禽） oor a roasst whhich needd to be ccarveed. HHe wiill ooftenn askk eacch guuest whatt pieece hhe prreferrs, aand iit iss quiite ppropeer too staate yyour prefferennce aas too leaan orr fatt, daark（红红肉） oor liight（白白肉）.5) Ussing Kniffe annd FoorkI

21、f yoou haave EEngliish aand AAmeriican frieends you willl nottice a feew diifferrencees inn theeir ccustooms oof eaatingg. Foor thhe maain oor meeat ccursee, thhe Ennglissh keeep tthe ffork in tthe lleft handd, pooint curvved ddownwward, andd briing tthe ffood to tthe mmouthh eitther by sstickking t

22、he poinnts oonto it oor inn thee casse off sofft veegetaabless, byy plaacingg it firmmly oon thhe foork iin thhis pposittion withh thee kniife. Amerricanns caarve the meatt in the samee possitioon, tthen lay downn thee kniife aand ttakinng thhe foork iin thhe riight handd witth thhe pooint turnned u

23、up, ppush it uunderr a ssmalll pieece oof foood wwithoout tthe hhelp of tthe kknifee andd briing iit too thee motth riight-sidee-up.6) Heelpinng Yoourseelf aand RRefussingIf a servvant passses ffood arouund, he wwill passs thee dissh inn at yourr lefft haand sso thhat yyou ccan cconveenienntly servv

24、e yoourseelf wwith yourr rigght hhand. Nevver sservee youursellf whhile the dishh is on yyour righht; iit iss theen thhe tuurn oof yoour nneighhbor on tthe rrightt. Itt is poliite tto taake ssome of eeveryythinng thhat iis paassedd to you. Butt if therre iss sommethiing yyou mmay nnot llike, youu ma

25、yy quiietlyy sayy: NNo thhank you.7) Seecondd HellpinggsThe hhosteess mmay oor maay noot assk iff youu wouuld llike a seecondd hellpingg, acccordding to tthe fformaalityy of the meall. Iff shee doees annd yoou accceptt it, youu shoould passs youur pllate to hher oor too thee serrvantt witth the knif

26、fe annd foork sstilll lyiing oon itt.8) Thhe Saalad CourrseA sallad iis eaaten withh a ffork onlyy helld inn thee rigght hhand withh poiints turnned uup. TTheree is usuaally a sppeciaal onne foor thhe saalad, a llittlle smmalleer thhan tthe mmeat forkk.9) Brread and ButtterBreadd is takeen inn thee

27、finngerss andd laiid onn thee sidde pllate or tthe eedge of tthe llargee plaate, it iis neever takee witth a forkk. Buutterr is takeen frrom tthe bbutteer diish wwith the buttter kknifee andd plaaced on tthe sside platte, nnot oon onnes breaad.10) OOtherr Thiings on tthe TTableeWhen therre arre thhi

28、ngss on the midddle oof thhe taable, succh ass breead, buttter, jellly, ppicklles, nitss, caandiees, yyou sshoulld noot taake aany uuntill thee hosstesss ahss sugggestted tthat theyy be passsed.11) LLeaviing tthe TTableeIt iss imppolitte foor a guesst too leaave tthe ttablee durring a meeal, or bbef

29、orre thhe hoostesss giives the signnal aat thhe ennd. WWhen the hosttess indiicatees thhat tthe ddinneer iss oveer, sshe wwill statt to risee froom heer seeat aand aall tthe gguestts shhe riise ffrom theiirs aat thhe saame ttime.12) VVarioous rruless andd SugggesttionssSit uup sttraigght oon yoour c

30、chairr; Doo nott putt mucch foood iin yoour mmouthh at a tiime; Drinnk onnly wwhen therre iss no foodd in yourr mouuth; Try not to gget iinto yourr mouuth aanythhing thatt willl haave tto bee takken oout; Do nnot mmake any nosee wheen yoou eaat; DDo noot cllean yourr teeeth aat thhe taable or aanywh

31、here in ppubliic, eeitheer wiith yyour fingger oor a tootth piick(牙牙签）, not evenn witth yoou toonguee.6. Inn Schhool1)Greeetinng thhe TeeacheerIf yoou arre inn a vvery largge cllass, it may not be nnecesssaryy to greeet thhe teeacheer onn arrrivinng, bbut iit iss alwways quitte prroperr if you happp

32、en tto caatch the teacchers eyye ass youu entter.2) Coomingg LatteIt iss badd mannnerss to comee latte too claass. If yyou aare uunavooidabbly llate an aapoloogy sshoulld bee madde too thee teaacherr eitther at tthe ttime or aafterr claass.3) Taalkinng inn ClaassIt iff badd mannnerss in the schooolr

33、ooom, as eelsewwheree, too tallk whhile anyoone eelse is ttakinng.7. Inn Pubblic Placces1) Trraffiic LaawsThe ccominng off thee mottor ccar mmade defiinitee traafficc laww andd reggulattionss a ppractticall neccessiity. To oobey thesse laaw iss nott so muchh a mmatteer off currtseyy(礼貌） aas a moraal

34、 obbligaationn（义务）.2) Foor Peeoplee WallkinggPeoplle waalkinng shhouldd keeep too thee siddewallks aand sshoulld keeep tto thhe riight of tthe ssidewwalk.3) Thhe ThheateerThe ttheatter ppropeer iss morre foormall thaan thhe mooviess. Att thee theeaterr besst cllothees arre inn ordder; evenning clott

35、hes are ofteen woorn.4) Thhe MooviessThe mmoviees arre moore iinforrmal. Anyy kinnd off resspecttablee cloothess mayy be wornn, annd smmall conffectiion(糖糖果） mmay bbe eaaten quieetly as llong as ttheree aree no objeectioonablle nooses to aannoyy onees nneighhborss.5) Inn ChuurchIt iss usuual ffor aa

36、nyonne atttendding churrch tto taake ssome moneey allong for the offeeringg, ass it is aa reggularr parrt off eveery cchurcch seervicce annd iss useed foor thhe woork oof thhe chhurchh. Goood cclothhes, but neveer evveninng cllothees, aare wworn to aa chuurch servvice.8. Sppeciaal Occcasiions1) Biir

37、thddayBirthhday in tthe WWest, as in CChinaa, arre coonsidderedd occcasioons ffor ccongrratullatioons aand ssomettimess forr giffts ffrom nearr friiendss.2)Thee WedddinggIf onne reeceivves aan annnounncemeent oof a weddding afteer itt is overr, a notee of conggratuulatiion mmay bbe seent, but a giif

38、t iis noot neecesssary.3) Thhe FuuneraalFunerrals, of courrse, are alwaays ssand, butt thee tenndenccy inn Wessternn couuntriies iis aggainsst maakingg anyy shoow off onees ffeeliings at tthe ffunerral. The ideaa behhind thiss is thatt thee perrson deadd wouuld wwish thiss lasst meeetinng off hiss f

39、riiendss in his honoor annd reemembbrancce too be fulll of tendder, happpy reecolllectiions of hhis llife.9. Wiith SStranngerss andd Friiendss1) Leendinng annd boorrowwing are moree mattterss of prinnciplle inn thee Wesst thhan iin thhe Eaast. Thinngs bborroowed in tthe WWest are defiiniteely eexpec

40、cted to bbe reeturnned, whetther it iis fiifty dolllars or mmerelly a frieendss penncil.2) Doont Be CCurioousIt iss imppolitte too be curiious abouut thhe prrivatte afffairrs off othhers, succh ass agee, saalaryy, reeligiion aand mmarriiage.3) Thhankss forr GifftsWhen somee onee givves yyou aa prees

41、entt, itt is veryy imppolitte too negglectt thaank hhim ffor iit.4) Onne Haand OOnlyIn chhina we uuse ttwo hhandss wheen giivingg sommethiing tto a persson, or wwhen receeivinng itt, iff we wantt to be vvery poliite. In tthe WWest thiss wouuld sseem awkwward and impoolitee.10. PPersoonal Habiits aan

42、d AAppeaarancce1) Peeoplee juddge yyou aat fiirst by wwhat theyy seee, soo parrticuular atteentioon shhouldd be paidd to yourr perrsonaal apppearrancee.2) Ussing a HaandkeerchiiefAlwayys caarry a cllean handdkercchieff. Doo nott usee it whille itt is foldded, and do nnot ffold it aafterr youu usee i

43、t.3)SpiittinngIn thhe Weest iit iss connsideered veryy imppolitte too spiit, eeven uponn thee strreet.4) SmmokinngSmokiing iis veery pprevaalentt(普遍), bothh by men and by wwomenn. Iff youu aree a gguestt in a hoome wwheree no otheers aare ssmokiing, it iis beetterr to refrrain(忍住） ffrom smokking, yo

44、uu mayy sayy, WWouldd youu minnd iff I ssmokeed?.11. SSome Poinnts ffor MMen1) Wiith aa LaddyAlwayys alllow the ladyy to preccede you in pplacees whhere one has to ggo beeforee thee othher eexceppt inn thee folllowiing ccase: wheen geettinng offf a streeet ccar, traiin, bbus, or oout oof ann auttomo

45、bbile; wheen gooing up sstairr; whhen oopeniing aa heaavy ddoor. Wheen yoou arre waalkinng allong the streeet wwith a laady, alwaays wwalk on tthe ooutsiide.2) Att a DDanceeIf yoou wiish tto daance withh a ccertaain llady, go to hher, bow, andd sayy: MMay II havve thhe plleasuure oof a dancce?Selecc

46、ted fromm Wessternn Mannnerss by Earll andd Katthariine WWillmmonttt andd traanslaated by WWan RRongffang西方礼仪为什么打招招呼？在欧美国国家见面打打招呼是很很自然的，即即使是不认认识。打招招呼的目的的，并不是是为了要跟跟你有进一一步的交往往，只是一一种生活礼礼仪形式。其其实不论任任何人，面面对有人微微笑打招呼呼，都会受受到感染，像像是见到阳阳光心情跟跟着好起来来一样，很很自然会打打招呼响应应。因此，在在西方国家家旅游的时时候，如果果迎面而来来的人对我我们说哈啰啰，别露出出一副莫名名其妙的表表情，甚至至置之不理理唷！那可可是非常失失礼的。怎怎样打招呼呼？对对方跟你说说Howw do you do ?就是你好的的意思，不不用按着课课本教的说说Finne, TThankk youu. Annd yoou?，除除非这是你你的好朋友友，或是你你有比较多多的时间跟跟他聊天，不不然只要同同样回答说说Howw do you do ?就够了了。如果怕怕自己英文文不好听，至至少微笑点点个头。有有时候他们们会说HHelloo !，其其实相当于于我们的嗨