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1、2023年你是谁 第一篇:你是谁 你是谁 别问我别说你也不知道 这么简洁的问题 你是谁 你不说 那也算了 终归我还不算相识你 你是谁 有点像 电影里的影像 只是你碰错了对象 假如可以 能不能让我轻轻地吻你 让我温和你那冰冷的双手 让我让你不再一个人 让我可以陪你渡过每个夜 假如可以 能不能让我牵牵你的手 让我为挡住吹向你的风雨 让我把快乐装饰给你 让我在孤寂的时候抱着你 其次篇:你是谁 你是谁 你是谁,静默踏进我的圈层。没有招手,略去彩排的痕迹,就这样,无声无息。 缘来了,情却尽了,邂逅了,心却冷了,你无声,我缄默。你转身,我亦不停留。 风儿说应挽留,我却会意摇头。雨儿说应流泪,我却笑而不愁。
2、 不懂多少分钟的停留,不知多少次的重逢。只瞥见背影邂逅,转角路口,照旧生疏。到最终,是快乐还是忧愁? 你是谁? 我不懂,你的心,我猜不透,只晓得,你照旧那么生疏。 你是谁,我不想懂。 我坦然,我心幽。 最终,只留下,你是谁? 第三篇:你是谁演讲稿范文 0:12 What an intriguing group of individuals you are.to a psychologist.0:17(Laughter)0:19 Ive had the opportunity over the last couple of daysof listening in on some of your
3、conversationsand watching you interact with each other.And I think its fair to say, already,that there are 47 people in this audience,at this moment,displaying psychological symptoms I would like to discuss today.0:42(Laughter)0:43 And I thought you might like to know who you are.0:46(Laughter)0:48
4、But instead of pointing at you,which would be gratuitous and intrusive,I thought I would tell you a few facts and stories,in which you may catch a glimpse of yourself.1:01 Im in the field of research known as personality psychology,which is part of a larger personality sciencewhich spans the full sp
5、ectrum, from neurons to narratives.And what we try to do,in our own way,is to make sense of how each of us each of you is, in certain respects,like all other people,like some other peopleand like no other person.1:33 Now, already you may be saying of yourself,“Im not intriguing.I am the 46th most bo
6、ring person in the Western Hemisphere.Or you may say of yourself,“I am intriguing,even if I am regarded by most people as a great, thundering twit. 1:56(Laughter)1:57 But it is your self-diagnosed boringness and your inherent “twitinessthat makes me, as a psychologist, really fascinated by you.So le
7、t me explain why this is so.2:11 One of the most influential approaches in personality scienceis known as trait psychology,and it aligns you along five dimensions which are normally distributed,and that describe universally held aspects of difference between people.They spell out the acronym OCEAN.S
8、o, “O stands for “open to experience,versus those who are more closed.“C stands for “conscientiousness,in contrast to those with a more lackadaisical approach to life.“E “extroversion, in contrast to more introverted people.“A “agreeable individuals,in contrast to those decidedly not agreeable.And “
9、N “neurotic individuals,in contrast to those who are more stable.3:03 All of these dimensions have implications for our well-being,for how our life goes.And so we know that, for example,openness and conscientiousness are very good predictors of life success,but the open people achieve that success t
10、hrough being audaciousand, occasionally, odd.The conscientious people achieve it through sticking to deadlines,to persevering, as well as having some passion.Extroversion and agreeableness are both conduciveto working well with people.Extroverts, for example, I find intriguing.With my classes, I som
11、etimes give them a basic factthat might be revealing with respect to their personality:I tell them that it is virtually impossible for adultsto lick the outside of their own elbow.4:00(Laughter)4:01 Did you know that?Already, some of you have tried to lick the outside of your own elbow.But extrovert
12、s amongst youare probably those who have not only tried,but they have successfully licked the elbowof the person sitting next to them.4:17(Laughter)4:18 Those are the extroverts.4:20 Let me deal in a bit more detail with extroversion,because its consequential and its intriguing,and it helps us under
13、stand what I call our three natures.First, our biogenic nature our neurophysiology.Second, our sociogenic or second nature,which has to do with the cultural and social aspects of our lives.And third, what makes you individually you idiosyncratic what I call your “idiogenic nature.4:52 Let me explain
14、.One of the things that characterizes extroverts is they need stimulation.And that stimulation can be achieved by finding things that are exciting:loud noises, parties and social events here at TED you see the extroverts forming a magnetic core.They all gather together.And Ive seen you.The introvert
15、s are more likely to spend time in the quiet spacesup on the second floor,where they are able to reduce stimulation and may be misconstrued as being antisocial,but youre not necessarily antisocial.It may be that you simply realize that you do betterwhen you have a chance to lower that level of stimu
16、lation.5:41 Sometimes its an internal stimulant, from your body.Caffeine, for example, works much better with extroverts than it does introverts.When extroverts come into the office at nine oclock in the morningand say, “I really need a cup of coffee,theyre not kidding they really do.Introverts do n
17、ot do as well,particularly if the tasks theyre engaged in and theyve had some coffee if those tasks are speeded,and if theyre quantitative,introverts may give the appearance of not being particularly quantitative.But its a misconstrual.6:18 So here are the consequences that are really quite intrigui
18、ng:were not always what seem to be,and that takes me to my next point.I should say, before getting to this,something about sexual intercourse,although I may not have time.And so, if you would like me to yes, you would?OK.6:39(Laughter)6:40 There are studies doneon the frequency with which individual
19、s engage in the conjugal act,as broken down by male, female;introvert, extrovert.So I ask you:How many times per minute oh, Im sorry, that was a rat study 6:58(Laughter)7:01 How many times per monthdo introverted men engage in the act?3.0.Extroverted men?More or less?Yes, more.5.5 almost twice as mu
20、ch.Introverted women: 3.1.Extroverted women?Frankly, speaking as an introverted male,which I will explain later they are heroic.7.5.They not only handle all the male extroverts,they pick up a few introverts as well.7:39(Laughter)7:41(Applause)7:47 We communicate differently, extroverts and introvert
21、s.Extroverts, when they interact,want to have lots of social encounter punctuated by closeness.Theyd like to stand close for comfortable communication.They like to have a lot of eye contact,or mutual gaze.We found in some researchthat they use more diminutive terms when they meet somebody.So when an
22、 extrovert meets a Charles,it rapidly becomes “Charlie, and then “Chuck,and then “Chuckles Baby. 8:20(Laughter)8:22 Whereas for introverts,it remains “Charles, until hes given a pass to be more intimateby the person hes talking to.We speak differently.Extroverts prefer black-and-white, concrete, sim
23、ple language.Introverts prefer and I must again tell youthat I am as extreme an introvert as you could possibly imagine we speak differently.We prefer contextually complex,contingent,weasel-word sentences 9:01(Laughter)9:02 More or less.9:04(Laughter)9:05 As it were.9:07(Laughter)9:08 Not to put too
24、 fine a point upon it like that.9:12 When we talk,we sometimes talk past each other.I had a consulting contract I shared with a colleaguewhos as different from me as two people can possibly be.First, his name is Tom.Mine isnt.9:26(Laughter)9:28 Secondly, hes six foot five.I have a tendency not to be
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