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1、-.外研英语选修 6全部阅读课文原文每个模块 4 篇Module 1Module 1Small TalkSmall TalkHow Good Are Your Social SkillsHow Good Are Your Social SkillsHave you ever crossed the road to avoid talking to someone you recognizeWould you love to go to a party and talk confidently to every guest Do youwant to make more friends but
2、lack the confidence to talk to people youdont know And are you nervous about the idea of being at a social eventin another country Dont worry we can help you!You neednt worry about situations like these if you have goodsocial skills.And they are easy to learn.People with good social skillsmunicate w
3、ell and know how to have a conversation.It helps if you do alittle advance planning.Here are a few ideas to help you.Learn how to do small talk.Learn how to do small talk.Small talk is very important and prepares you for more seriousconversations.Be prepared!Have some low-risk conversation openers r
4、eady.For example:Think of a recent news story not to serious,e.g.a story about a-优选-.film star or sports star.Think of things to tell people about your studies.Think of“safe things you can ask peoples opinions about music,sport,films,etc.Think of topics that you would avoid if you were talking to st
5、rangers and avoid talking about them!That way,you dont damage yourconfidence!Develop your listening skillsListening is a skill which most people lack,but munication is a two-wayprocess it involves speaking AND listening.Always remember youwont impress people if you talk too much.Here are some ideas
6、to makeyou a better listener:DOShow that you are listening by using encouraging noises and gestures smiling,nodding,saying“uh-huh and“OK,etc.Keep good eye contactUse positive body languageAsk for more information to show your interestDONTLook at your watchYawnSign-优选-.Look away from the person whos
7、talking to youChange the subjectFinish other peoples sentences for themAlways remember the words of Benjamin Disraeli,British PrimeMinister in the 19thcentury:“Talk to a man about himself,and he willspeak to you for hours!Learn the rulesLearn the rulesIf you go to a social occasion in another countr
8、y,remember thatsocial rules can be different.In some countries,for example,you have toarrive on time at a party;in other countries,you dont need to.In addition,you need to know how long you should stay,and when you have to leave.Some hosts expect flowers or a small gift,but in other places,you can t
9、akethings,but you neednt if you dont want t.remember also that in somecountries,you mustnt take flowers of a certain colour,because theyreunlucky.In most places,you dont have to take a gift to a party butfind our first!The Wrong Kind of Small TalkThe Wrong Kind of Small TalkEsther Greenbaum was a sa
10、leswoman for a firm of fax machines andbusiness supplies.But she was also the most outspokenhuman being inthe world well,Westchester County,at least.Her motto was“Everytime I open my mouth,I put my foot in it.-优选-.Esther Greenbaums major shorting was that she had a pleteabsence of small talk.No,that
11、 not quite true.She had small talk,but itwas the wrong kind.In fact,she had never learnt the basic rules of socialmunication,and as a consequence,she made systematic mistakes every timeshe opened her mouth.It was no coincidence either that she wasnt a verygood saleswoman.One day during a meeting,Est
12、her was introduced to an importantcustomer,a mature woman.“Nice to meet you,she said.“How old are you Thecustomer looked awkward.“Forty Forty-five said Esther.“You kook much older.Andyour friend shes older than you,but she looks much younger!On another occasion,Esther teased a typist,“Hey!Whens your
13、baby dueThe typist went red and contradicted Esther.“Actually,Im notpregnant,she said.“Oh,sorry,said Esther without any apology.“Just putting on alittle weight,huhEsther was never cautious about other peoples feelings.One of heracquaintances,a salesman in the firm,was going through a very messydivor
14、ce and was very depressed.She tried to cheer him up.“Forget her!She was a plete fool.No one liked her anyway.-优选-.Much of the time,Esther said the first thing to e into her head.Oneday at work,a clerk came into the office with a new hairstyle.“Nice haircut,said Esther.“How much did it costThe woman
15、replied,“Id rather not say.Esther replied,“Well,anyhow,either you paid too much or you paidtoo little.She met a very famous writer once.“Hey,what a coincidence!she said.“Youre writing a book and Im reading one!The trouble with Esther was she said what she thought,and didntthink about what she said.A
16、 young man was trying to modest about his newjob many miles away.“I guess the pany chose me so theyd get some peace in theoffice,he smiled.“No,I guess they chose you to discourage you from spending yourwhole career with us,Esther replied sweetly.Once,Esther went to a brunch party to meet some old sc
17、hool friendson the anniversary of their graduation.She greeted the hostess.“Do you remember that guy you were dating What happened tohim she asked.“You know,the ugly one.At the moment,a man came up and stood by her friend.“Esther,Id like you to meet my husband,she said,“Charles,this isEsther interru
18、pted her,“Hey,so you married him!-优选-.Making Friends in the USAMaking Friends in the USAIn the USA,conversation is less lively than in many other cultures,whereeveryone talks at the same time.When someone talks,everyone is expectedto listen,no matter how dull the persons speaking may be.If youre not
19、 sure what to talk about,you can ask what people do.Were defined by our jobs and were usually happy to talk about them,unless youre spy!Some people say that Americans talk about their feelings more thanAsians,but are more secretive about factual matters.You can safely askquestions about families,whe
20、re you e from,leisure interests,as well as thelatest movies.Were interested in peoples ethnic background too.Butits best to avoid politics,religion and other sensitive topics.A highly personal conversation can take place after a very shortperiod of knowing someone,but this doesnt mean that youre clo
21、sefriends,or the relationship is very deep.But a lot of people are very friendlyand hospitable,and the famous invitation“If youre ever in Minneapolis/San Diego/Poughkeepsie,do call by and see us!is never madewithout a genuine desire to meet again.But while few Americans will worry about the question
22、s you may ask,particularly if you clearly show youre aware of cultural differences,theymay hesitate before they ask you similar questions.In fact,its a sign that-优选-.they dont wish to vio late your private life.So,many Americans will talkabout safe topics because they dont dare to be too curious or
23、personal,but will happily talk about more private matters if you take the lead.Generally we dislike arguments,and we avoid topics which lead todisagreement.Its easy to return to discussing the weather:“Do you likethe USA How do you like the weather or making pliments:What lovely flowers and what a b
24、eautiful vase!“Thats fabulous dressyoure wearing.You should accept pliments graciously and say“Thank you!There are a couple of dangerous topics of conversation:age andmoney.Age is not treated as something very special,unless someone is veryold:“Isnt she wonderful for her age!and there are no special
25、 rules orsigns of extra respect for elderly people.Anyway,Americans always want tolook younger than they really are,so dont expect an accurate reply!Ine is a very private matter,and youd do well to avoid asking howmuch people earn,although some people may not only be open about it,butshow off their
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