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1、The Rising Divorce RateThe Rising Divorce RateUntilUntil now,now,I I dodo notnot believebelieve thatthat thethe phenomenonphenomenon ofof flashflash divorcedivorce happenshappensaroundaround me.me.OneOne dayday inin thethe lastlast yearyear，I I wentwent toto thethe schoolschool forfor visitingvisiti

2、ng mymymothermother。InIn thethe schoolyard,schoolyard,MissMiss YangYang slouchedslouched pastpast meme withwith herher headheaddroppingdropping。It was so weird.As usual,she would warmly greet meIt was so weird.As usual,she would warmly greet me。I asked myI asked mymother for the reason as soon as st

3、epped into her officemother for the reason as soon as stepped into her office。She winked at meShe winked at me。Later I knew the reason.Miss yang divorced after marrying for just one month.Later I knew the reason.Miss yang divorced after marrying for just one month.TheThe reasonreason ofof divorcediv

4、orce is is unbelievable.unbelievable.LaterLater anotheranother similarsimilar eventevent happened.happened.Contrasting the case of Miss Yang,the case below is more unbelievable.Contrasting the case of Miss Yang,the case below is more unbelievable.ParentsParents ofof mymy bestbest friendfriend divorc

5、eddivorced afterafter finishingfinishing moremore thanthan 1010 yeasyeasdiscorddiscord。They have married for 22years.They have married for 22years.Now I want to ask why they do notNow I want to ask why they do notdivorcedivorce earlier.earlier.AccordingAccording toto thesethese，mymy mothermother jus

6、tjust sighedsighed,“TheThe youthfulyouthfulpersons are so impetuous and immature.To my surprise,the old couple is morepersons are so impetuous and immature.To my surprise,the old couple is moreserious.serious.AboveAbove twotwo is is nothingnothing toto speakspeak ofof comparingcomparing withwith 2 2

7、。26million26millionnationalnationaldivorce rate.divorce rate.Divorce seems to become a social phenomenon-Divorce seems to become a social phenomenon-fashion in thefashion in therecent years.Only for the Beijing districtrecent years.Only for the Beijing district，the divorce rate is 50the divorce rate

8、 is 50。9%in this year.9%in this year.ComparingComparing withwith thethe lastlast yearyear，thethe raterate increasesincreases byby 8 8。1 1。WhyWhy thisthishappenshappens？Firstly,I should distinguish keeping a romance from marriage.The biggestFirstly,I should distinguish keeping a romance from marriage

9、.The biggestdifference is a matter of responsibility or obligation.In my view,the main causedifference is a matter of responsibility or obligation.In my view,the main causeof rising divorce rate is lace of responsibility.The sweet lovers never think thatof rising divorce rate is lace of responsibili

10、ty.The sweet lovers never think thatmarriage is a serious thing.It is not just a legal papermarriage is a serious thing.It is not just a legal paper。It It，as a fruit tree needsas a fruit tree needscouplescouples great care to bring the tree to blossom and producing sweet fruit great care to bring th

11、e tree to blossom and producing sweet fruit。InInthe modern societythe modern society，everyone have right to seek for liberation of personality.Ineveryone have right to seek for liberation of personality.Infact,the extreme point of liberation is lack of responsibility.The lovers love eachfact,the ext

12、reme point of liberation is lack of responsibility.The lovers love eachother deeply when they are keeping romance.As soon as stepped into the doorsillother deeply when they are keeping romance.As soon as stepped into the doorsillof marriageof marriage，they find their dream-career,study,liberation de

13、tained by heavythey find their dream-career,study,liberation detained by heavyobligations and responsibility from familyobligations and responsibility from family，because you live lonely no longerbecause you live lonely no longer。The ultraThe ultramarriage love steps the top reason of divorce accord

14、ing tomarriage love steps the top reason of divorce according tothe social surveythe social survey。In my view,it is another way for couples evading the heavyIn my view,it is another way for couples evading the heavyburden of marriage.The boring and pale life lead couples to seek freshness fromburden

15、 of marriage.The boring and pale life lead couples to seek freshness fromthe ultrathe ultramarriage love.marriage love.AnotherAnother aspectaspect ofof responsibilityresponsibility refersrefers toto problemproblem ofof maintainingmaintaining thethefamily.family.TheThe secondsecond toptop reasonreaso

16、n ofof divorcedivorce is is economiceconomic problemproblem。NotNot havinghavingenoughenough moneymoney maymay bringbring stressstress andand quarrelsquarrels toto thethe family.family.ForFor example,example,if if a ahusbandhusband cannotcannot earnearn enoughenough moneymoney toto maintainmaintain h

17、ishis family,family,hehe maymay loseloseself-confidence.Day by day,he may become testy and make the gap much larger.self-confidence.Day by day,he may become testy and make the gap much larger.It It is is possiblepossible thatthat thethe wifewife despisesdespises thethe poorpoor andand curriescurries

18、 favorfavor withwith thethe richrich。They would divorceThey would divorce。Secondly,Secondly,wewe havehave toto referrefer toto thethe flashflash marriagemarriage focusingfocusing onon thethe youthfulyouthfulpersonspersons。They get marriage hastily though they dont know each other enoughThey get marr

19、iage hastily though they dont know each other enough。As time go on,they find that their mates have too many defects that they couldAs time go on,they find that their mates have too many defects that they couldnotnot endureendure。AsAs a a resultresult，theythey areare alwaysalways carpingcarping atat

20、eacheach otherother untiluntil flashflashdivorce.divorce.Thirdly,Thirdly,inin thethe modernmodern societysociety，womenwomen havehave enoughenough moneymoney toto livelive bybythemselvesthemselves。It means that they depend on men no longerIt means that they depend on men no longer。Divorce makes noDiv

21、orce makes nodifferencedifference。On the other handOn the other hand，the women accept the education,so they havethe women accept the education,so they haveno intention of acting as the accessories of husband.They have rights to seek forno intention of acting as the accessories of husband.They have r

22、ights to seek forthe liberation of human nature,toothe liberation of human nature,too。This year Chinese political advisor put forward a precious suggestion aboutThis year Chinese political advisor put forward a precious suggestion aboutmaking the procedure of divorce complicate.The easy procedure of

23、 divorce maymaking the procedure of divorce complicate.The easy procedure of divorce mayleadlead toto highhigh divorcingdivorcing rate.rate.I I appreciateappreciate thethe proposalproposal。It It cancan effectivelyeffectively holdholdback impetuous couples.back impetuous couples.This alarming increas

24、e rate should be taken seriously.Families have beenThis alarming increase rate should be taken seriously.Families have beenundergoing great changes in the influence of modern lifestyleundergoing great changes in the influence of modern lifestyle。In additionIn addition，thetherising divorce rate affects the different aspects of society.The whole societyrising divorce rate affects the different aspects of society.The whole societyshould pay more attention to peoples wedded lifeshould pay more attention to peoples wedded life。