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1、Reading and Writing外语教学与研究出版社Unit 2BookOne外语教学与研究出版社ContentWarming-upWarming-upReadingReadingWritingWritingTextATextATextBTextBBookOne外语教学与研究出版社Warming-upBookOne外语教学与研究出版社nWatchthistalkshowprogramanddiscussinwhatwaysthefriendshipsbetweenmensfriendshipandwomensaredifferent.BookOne外语教学与研究出版社1.Question
2、s:1)Who do you prefer to chat with,people of your own gender or the opposite gender?Is your best friend of your own gender?2)Do you have any difficulty in communicating with people of the opposite gender?3)Have you noticed any similarities or differences between your ways of communicating with your
3、boy friends and girl friends?2.Each group appoint one representative to give a presentation about the groups discussion.Group discussion BookOne外语教学与研究出版社 WHY IS IT SO HARD FOR MEN AND WOMEN TO TALK TO EACH OTHER?DeborahTannenBookOne外语教学与研究出版社ReadingText ATextStudyTextStudyMainIdea&StructureMainIdea
4、&StructureSentenceAnalysisSentenceAnalysisLanguagePointsLanguagePointsBookOne外语教学与研究出版社 Main Idea and StructurenFirstreading:Scanthetextandtrytocatchthemainidea.The following words are for your reference toorganizetheidea:Communication crisis,in public,at home,childhood socializtion,norms,expectatio
5、n,cross-cultural communication,accept,understandnSecondreading:readthepassageagainandtrytoidentifythestructureofthispassage.For your referenceFor your referenceBookOne外语教学与研究出版社This article focuses on the communication crisis in marriage,and analyze the reasons behind it.It finds that due to the dif
6、ference in childhood socializtion men and women have different interactive norms and expectation.And these difference make male-female talk like cross-cultural communication.To solve this problem,both men and women need to accept the difference and try to understand each other.MainIdeaBookOne外语教学与研究
7、出版社StructureA small episode of the crisis Para.6-18The sound of silence Mainidea:Men tend to talk More in public situations than at home.Lack of communication has become a crisis in marriage.Mainidea:Male-female communication is like cross-cultural communication.Men and women have different way of c
8、ommunication,conversation habits and dexpectation of good commuincation.Mainidea:The communication problems require a new conceptual framework about the role of talking in marriage.Women need to accept the difference and understand their hunsbands.Linguistic battle between men and women Para.19-22Pa
9、ra.1-5BookOne外语教学与研究出版社Text StudyBookOne外语教学与研究出版社1IwasaddressingasmallgatheringinasuburbanVirginialivingroomawomensgroupthathadinvitedmentojointhem.Throughouttheevening,onemanhadbeenparticularlytalkative,frequentlyofferingideasandanecdotes,whilehiswifesatsilentlybesidehimonthecouch.Towardtheendofth
10、eevening,Icommentedthatwomenfrequentlycomplainthattheirhusbandsdonttalktothem.Thismanquicklyconcurred.Hegesturedtowardhiswifeandsaid,“Shesthetalkerinourfamily.”Theroomburstintolaughter;themanlookedpuzzledandhurt.“Itstrue,”heexplained.“WhenIcomehomefromworkIhavenothingtosay.Ifshedidntkeeptheconversat
11、iongoing,wedspendthewholeeveninginsilence.”2ThisepisodecrystallizestheironythatalthoughAmericanmentendtotalkmorethanwomeninpublicsituations,theyoftentalklessathome.Andthispatterniswreakinghavocwithmarriage.BookOne外语教学与研究出版社Paras.3-53SociologistCatherineKohierRiessman,whoreportsinhernewbookDivorceTal
12、kthatmostofthewomensheinterviewedbutonlyafewofthemengavelackofcommunicationasthereasonfortheirdivorces.4Inmyownresearch,complaintsfromwomenabouttheirhusbandsmostoftenfocusednotontangibleinequitiessuchashavinggivenupthechanceforacareertoaccompanyahusbandtohis,ordoingfarmorethantheirshareofdailylife.I
13、nstead,theyfocusedoncommunication:“Hedoesntlistentome,”“Hedoesnttalktome.”Ifoundthatmostwiveswanttheirhusbandstobe,firstandforemost,conversationalpartners,butfewhusbandssharethisexpectationoftheirwives.5Inshort,theimagethatbestrepresentsthecurrentcrisisisthestereotypicalcartoonsceneofamansittingatth
14、ebreakfasttablewithanewspaperheldupinfrontofhisface,whileawomanglaresatthebackofit,wantingtotalk.BookOne外语教学与研究出版社Paras.6-8LinguisticBattleBetweenMenandWomen6Howcanwomenandmenhavesuchdifferentimpressionsofcommunicationinmarriage?Whyisthereawidespreadimbalanceintheirinterestsandexpectations?7IntheApr
15、il1990issueofAmericanPsychologist,StanfordUniversitysEleanorMaccobyreportstheresultsofherownandothersresearchshowingthatchildrensdevelopmentismostinfluencedbythesocialstructureofpeerinteractions.Boysandgirlstendtoplaywithchildrenoftheirowngender,andtheirsex-separategroupshavedifferentorganizationals
16、tructuresandinteractivenorms.8Ibelievethesesystematicdifferencesinchildhoodsocializationmaketalkbetweenwomenandmenlikecross-culturalcommunication.Myresearchonmensandwomensconversationsuncoveredpatternssimilartothosedescribedforchildrensgroups.BookOne外语教学与研究出版社Paras.9-119Forwomen,asforgirls,intimacyi
17、sthefabricofrelationships,andtalkisthethreadfromwhichitiswoven.Littlegirlscreateandmaintainfriendshipsbyexchangingsecrets;similarly,womenregardconversationasthecornerstoneoffriendship.Soawomanexpectsherhusbandtobeanewandimprovedversionofabestfriend.Whatisimportantisnottheindividualsubjectsthataredis
18、cussedbutthesenseofcloseness,ofalifeshared,thatemergeswhenpeopletelltheirthoughts,feelings,andimpressions.10Bondsbetweenboyscanbeasintenseasgirls,buttheyarebasedlessontalking,moreondoingthingstogether.Sincetheydontassumetalkisthecementthatbindsarelationship,mendontknowwhatkindoftalkwomenwant,andthey
19、dontmissitwhenitisntthere.11Boysgroupsarelarger,moreinclusive,andmorehierarchical,soboysmuststruggletoavoidthesubordinatepositioninthegroup.Thismayplayaroleinwomenscomplaintsthatmendontlistentothem.BookOne外语教学与研究出版社Para.1212Oftenwhenwomentellmen,“Youarentlistening,”andthemenprotest“Iam”,themenarerig
20、ht.Theimpressionofnotlisteningresultsfrommisalignmentsinthemechanicsofconversation.Thismisalignmentbeginsassoonasamanandawomantakephysicalpositions.WhenIstudiedvideotapesmadebypsychologistBruceDorvalofchildrenandadultstalkingtotheirsame-sexbestfriends,Ifoundateveryage,thegirlsandwomenfacedeachotherd
21、irectly,theireyesanchoredoneachothersfaces.Ateveryage,theboysandmensatatanglestoeachotherandlookedelsewhereintheroom,periodicallyglancingateachother.Butthetendencyofmentofaceawaycangivewomentheimpressiontheyarentlisteningevenwhentheyare.Ayoungwomanincollegewasfrustrated:whenevershetoldherboyfriendsh
22、ewantedtotalktohim,hewouldliedownonthefloor,closehiseyes,andputhisarmoverhisface.Thissignaledtoher,“Hestakinganap.”Butheinsistedhewaslisteningextrahard.Normally,helooksaroundtheroom,soheiseasilydistracted.Lyingdownandcoveringhiseyeshelpedhimconcentrateonwhatshewassaying.BookOne外语教学与研究出版社Para.13-1513
23、Switchingtopicsisanotherhabitthatgiveswomentheimpressionmenarentlistening,especiallyiftheyswitchtoatopicaboutthemselves.Thegirlsinmystudytendedtotalkatlengthaboutonetopic,buttheboystendedtojumpfromtopictotopic.14Mystudyofthe10th-gradechildrenfoundthatwhenagirltoldafriendaboutaproblem,thefriendrespon
24、dedbyaskingprobingquestionsandexpressingagreementandunderstanding.Buttheboysdismissedeachothersproblems.ToddassuredRichardthathisdrinkingwas“nobigproblem”.AndwhenToddsaidhefeltleftout,Richardresponded,“Whyshouldyou?Youknowmorepeoplethanme.”15Womenperceivedsuchresponsesasbelittlingandunsupportive.But
25、theboysseemedsatisfiedwiththem.Whereaswomenreassureeachotherbyimplying,“YoushouldntfeelbadbecauseIvehadsimilarexperiences,”mendosobyimplying,“Youshouldntfeelbadbecauseyourproblemsarentsobad.”BookOne外语教学与研究出版社Para.16-1716Thereareevensimplerreasonsforwomensimpressionthatmendontlisten.LinguistLynetteHi
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