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1、Passage 1Making Friends in FamilyWHEN Joan gave birth to the first boy in her family in three generations,she and her husbandwere ecstatic.So were her parents.Joan expected her older sister,Sally,to be just as delighted.Joan had always worshiped Sally-the beauty and the star of the familyand rejoice
2、d in herachievements.But since the babys arrival,the sisters have become distant.Joan feels hurt that Sally seemscompletely uninterested in little Andrew.Sally,who had no children,claims that her younger sister“acts as if no one ever had a baby before*.Neither Sally nor Joan understands that the sud
3、den reversal in their family roles is the real causeof the current chill.Joan has finally outdone her dominant older sister-and Sally doesnt like it!Their distance may be temporary,but it shows that childhood rivalry(竞 争)isnt always outgrown.It can remain a strong ingredient in sibling(兄 弟 姐 妹)relat
4、ionships throughout life.In a study at the University of Cincinnati,65 men and women between ages 25 and 93 were askedhow they felt about their brothers and sisters.Nearly 75 percent admitted harboring rivalrousfeelings.In a few cases,these emotions were sufficiently intense to have affected their e
5、ntire lives.Many adult brothers and sisters are close,supportive and affectionateyet still need to compete.Two brothers I know turn into killers when on opposite sides of a tennis net.Off the court,they arethe best of friends.My own younger sister never fails to tell me when Ive put on weight.Howeve
6、r,shes a terrible cook and that pleases me;I outdo myself when she comes to dinner.Happily,despite these small failings,we have been an important resource for one another.In between the intensely rivalrous and the generally supportive siblings lie those who relate in anirritable manner that no frien
7、dship should survive.Some brothers and sisters stay at arms length,but always stop short ot ending ties completely.Why do these puzzling,unproductive,oftenpainful relationships persist?In part because the bonds forged in childhood remain powerful even after siblings have grown upand gone their separ
8、ate ways.These relationships are so intimate that the participants share acloseness unlike any other.But along with the affection contributing to that closeness,there isroom for anger,jealousy and resentment.Stephen Bank,a family therapist and co-author with Michael D.Kahn of The Sibling Bond,explai
9、ns why:1There are few adults who dont believe deep down that a sibling got more ofsomething than they did-parental love,advantages,brains,looks.It could be true,but it reallydoesnt matter,If,as adults,theyre successful enough to feel on an equal footing,siblings can giveeach other a great deal.If no
10、t,unresolved feelings can distort their relationships.The need for parental love is as instinctive as breathing,and the struggle to keep it all for yourselfbegins with the birth of a younger sister or brother.According to Bank,when the rivalry betweenadult siblings achieves neurotic(精 神 病 的)proporti
11、ons,it can usually be traced back either tomarked parental favoritism or to one siblings conviction that the other is superior.A study of adult sisters,described in the book Sisters by Elizabeth Fishel,points up how importantit is for parents to treat their children even-handedly.Those sisters who r
12、eported the bestrelationships were the ones who said there had been no favoritism,no parental comparisons andno pitting of one child against another.Social scientists who have studied adult sibling relationships say it is common for them to blowhot and cold.Situations that might be expected to bring
13、 them together-the birth of a child,theillness or death of a parentare well known for reviving old rivalries.Instead of uniting in their concern for an ill parent,siblings often quarrel bitterly over whoprovides the most care,financial support or affection,according to Victor Cicirelli,a PurdueUnive
14、rsity Psychologist.And probate(遗 嘱 检 验)lawyers say the bitterest quarrels erupt whensiblings have to divide a parents personal property.The break between Jill and Patty might have been closed by now if Jills husband hadnt been soquick to take his wifes side.nIf spouses want to be constructive when s
15、iblings quarrel,they needto remain emotionally neutral,Bank advises.Its a line to be supportive,provided theyremember the goal is to help their mates be more objective and not inflame feelings furthe匚 As they get older,many adults say they wish they were on better terms with brothers or sisters.Inth
16、e next breath,however,they add that its probably impossible.We always get hung up on thesame old sore points1 is a familiar lament(悲 伤).That neednt be true,says Bank.Almost any relationship can be improved if people are willingto put energy into making it more satisfying.People must recognize that t
17、heir childhood rivalries are left over from a struggle that was verylikely the fault of neither.If they can see that,it will help them to stop feeling guilty or blamingeach other the way they did at age twelve.Siblings often hesitate to disclose long-concealed feelings of anger or jealousy,inferiori
18、ty or guilt.But after these feelings are brought out,there*s a much better chance to improve the relationship.Speaking out honestly about rivalrous feelings is the first step/*says Bank.nBut its essential toget beyond accusations and talk positively about what each might do to improve things.Peopleo
19、ften dont let their siblings know how much they care.Bank adds.Dont be afraid to say,I reallylove you,“he advises.And show your affection a hug,a compliment or a thoughtful gift canheal a lot of wounds.nWhen siblings can get past their rivalries,they may find they are bound by closer,longer-lastingt
20、ies than those with any other person in their lives.Im deeply thankful that my sister and I arefriends,although weve also seen each other through rough times in ways no one else could.Someday,she may be the only person I know who remembers a long-ago Christmas or laughs atthe same jokes.I dont think
21、 Ill even mind if she tells me Im putting on weight.1.According to the passage,competition between siblings plays a powerful role in the siblingrelationships in ones entire life.2.When siblings have grown up,they will easily forget their childhood rivalries and be on betterterms with each other.3.Th
22、e way parents treat their children affects,to a great extent,sibling relationships.4.The author and her sister are friendly with each other because their parents always treat themeven-handedly.5.There are little rivalries between the siblings who are close,supportive and affectionate.6.Parental favo
23、ritism and a belief that the other is superior may trigger childhood competitionwhich may last even at adulthood.7.It is beneficial to sibling relationships if a husband shows support to his wife when she quarrelswith her sistei:8.Sallys attitude when Joan had a baby i s.9.Self-disclosure brings the
24、 opportunities to better t h e.10.The more you put on the relationship,the more satisfying it will be.Passage 2No one knows exactly how many disabled people there are in the world,but 1 1 suggest the figureis over 450 million.The number of disabled people in India 12 is probably more than double the
25、total population of Canada.In the United Kingdom,about one in ten people have some disability.Disability is not justsomething that happens to other people:as we get older,many of us will become less 13,hard ofhearing or have failing eyesight.Disablement can take many forms and occur at any time of l
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